Yay! You’ve started making connections on Peanut! Now for the fun part - turning that wave into a real conversation and maybe even meeting up when it feels right.
Starting the Conversation
We all know that first message can feel a bit awkward, but remember - everyone’s in the same boat! Try these approaches:
“Hi there! I’m Sarah, mama to 18-month-old Jack who’s currently obsessed with throwing everything in the toilet! 🫣 How’s your week going?”
“Hey! I noticed you mentioned you’re into baby-led weaning. We’re just starting and my kitchen looks like a crime scene after every meal! Any tips?”
“Hello from the land of no sleep! I see you’ve got twins too - please tell me it gets easier? I’m running on coffee and dry shampoo over here!”
Keeping the Conversation Going
Once you’ve broken the ice, just chat like you would with any friend:
Remember they might take hours (or days!) to reply. Between nap schedules, tantrums, and endless laundry, quick responses are a luxury for most mamas. ⏱️
Share your real mama moments: “My toddler had a complete meltdown at the supermarket today because I wouldn’t let him eat a raw potato. Please tell me yours does weird stuff too?”
Ask questions that make it easy to reply: “What’s your go-to park? We’re always looking for new places where my little tornado can burn off energy!”
Suggesting a Meet-up
When it feels right to meet in person:
Be specific but casual: “We’re heading to Riverside Park on Thursday morning around 10 if you and Ella want to join? The coffee cart there is my lifeline! ☕️ ”
Suggest kid-friendly spots: “Have you tried that new indoor play cafe on Main Street? I’ve been wanting to check it out but haven’t been brave enough to wrangle my two there alone!”
Keep it pressure-free: “No worries if this week’s crazy - we’re usually at the library storytime most Fridays if you’re ever free to join!”
The Bottom Line
Be yourself, don’t overthink it, and remember that most mamas are just looking for someone who gets what they’re going through.
Happy friend-making! 💕