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Depressed at Xmas

Me and my long term partner split up 8 months ago and this will be out first Christmas not altogether as a family 😭 I don’t know what I am going to do 💔 I have no one but my kids and I’m going to have time away from them which I really can’t handle 💔 feel like ending it all 😭

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Maternity leave?

Hello! Has anyone ever figured out maximizing the CA maternity leave? I’m trying to read my HR and state benefits but my pregnancy brain is definitely not helping lol 😅 I know we can get short-term disability state benefits (70-90% of our income) for 4 weeks pre-childbirth and 6-8 weeks after childbirth. Then we…

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Is it against policy/rules to send a Christmas card to your therapist??

My MIL told me that’s way too friendly to do and I shouldn’t have sent a card. I mean she plays a huge part in mine and my daughter’s life. It’s not like I got her a gift?

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Dear diary ( Part 10 T E N)

I know . It's been a few days and you guys are probably waiting for the tea after my rendezvous ! Truth is there's no tea . We had a great time. Only missionary. This was the first and only time I had only did missionary. We didn't change position not even once . That's never happened before.we also only had sex ...

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Mommy friends? Local or not ❤️

Hey I’m Kami, I have a very energetic one year old 😂 I’m 21! looking for some mommy friends near VA or far. Online friends are great too! Here’s a picture of my big boy ❤️

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Almost 40 moms

Does anyone else have trouble finding friends close to their ages? I’m almost 40 with a 1.5 year old. Definitely did it a little later than a lot. While I don’t mind meeting younger people, I worry about being able to relate due to the age difference. I need a mom tribe and don’t even know where to begin.

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Yall ever just look at your man and think damn he's sexy as fuck?

Cause like that just happened and were in the Walmart parking lot and all he did was walk by my window and I was like "mmmm damn me likey" and now I just want i just want to jump his bones but not only are we in public but have our kid.

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Looking for a Bestie

Anyone here from Newfoundland Canada wanna be my bestie I don't have anyone

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Advice on using the LGBTQ+ flair

I'm bisexual and when I saw that there was a LGBTQ+ flair, I added it to my profile, since I'm part of the community and wanted to display it to maybe connect to other people of the community. But I am in a relationship with a man, and after some thinking about it, I wonder if people might expect you to be part of a...

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I’m losing my mind.

My baby is 19 months old now. I’ve been a stay at home mom (not by choice) the last 3 months I can’t afford child care, and I have to be working to get assistance to help cover it and I have no one I trust to watch her. Family isn’t an option like they literally won’t change her diaper. I commend mothers who can be ...

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Being Married

Question for married women. I’m really wondering, as a married woman, are you happier?, feel more secure and confident? What benefits other than money do you have? Or if your husband doesn’t have “money” like that, what did you gain by getting married? I’m genuinely curious. Me and my boyfriend are not married and ...

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Am I trippin?

My bd and his mom are always bitching about his bm, so after my bds bm cheated, he couldn’t provide financially. He doesn’t want to get a real job and relies on his clothing brand to beat the odds and suddenly make all this money. He use to be married and when she cheated he and I got together and her had a baby and...

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Sex after vaginal delivery

So I’m a little over 5 months pp and I’m still struggling. Like we have sex and I can even orgasm but it has to be very gentle and vanilla(which wasn’t really our style before lol). And even when it goes well it gets to the point where it feels like there are razor blades on his penis! And afterwards it hurts to pee...

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Bank work

So I’m looking into different jobs & there is a bank position……would I get paid maternity pay if I was to have another baby?

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26-3 kids

I just found out I’m pregnant with baby #3. I’m nervous being younger with going on 3 kids it’ll be harder to make friends? I’m an awesome friend and have friends but limited ones with kids and I feel like I might get judged a bit having another? I can be wrong idk. Me and my nan have been together 9 years we love e...

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Sex life

How many times do you and your partner have sex?

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anyone up and wanna chat?

need someone to vent too?

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Would anyone join a reality tv group if I made one?

I’m talking Netflix dating, real housewives, etc!

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Working out after c section

Hello, I am thinking about going back to pilates and running for a start. I am a very active person and used to do a lot of sport pre pregnancy. I continued during pregnancy. After my first pregnancy (vaginal delivery) I was back to the gym 10 days after the birth. With the c section I am taking it easy and I wa...

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Snap / government insurance

Has anyone else had to have an employer fill out a 6/30 form and are worried because you have a week to get it filled out and back in to them by a certain time and have freaked out because you don’t know if it’ll be filled out in time and you could possibly lose your insurance and snap benefits and your also making ...

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