Little rant

Any mommas feel like family members only come by to see you just for the baby and don’t ever ask about how you’re doing? It’s only like can I come and see the baby? I feel like some don’t acknowledge me it makes me feel sad and lonely. They want a relationship with my child but don’t make an effort to have one with me. I’ve tried on my end but nothing in return. I have set boundaries now and have cut people off am I wrong for this? Like they weren’t present thru out my whole pregnancy not even before I got pregnant. I just feel uncomfortable in a way I don’t know…. Any mommas going thru this? ☹️

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Yup! It’s incredibly frustrating. And now that she’s a year old I’m even noticing people are losing interest in seeing her, I think cause she doesn’t wanna be held and cuddled all the time. ☹️

Yes I went through this. It's very disrespectful and for that reason, I cut off all of those family members. No one called me when I was struggling, I was hospitalized while pregnant 3 times and not a soul called and checked up on me. Soon as the baby was born, my phone blowing up. Nah yall can stay over there.

Yep, but I expected it. I understand your reasoning for cutting people off, and I think you're valid for doing that. The only reason I won't is because my own mom felt disrespected by family members, cut them off, and now I feel robbed of a relationship with them. I can't get that back. So, for my son, I just suck it up. I'm happy that they love my son. I don't really care about my relationship with them in that respect, as long as he's happy and treated well.

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