Pregnant, again

I’ve just found out I’m pregnant, my baby is 3 months old. I just turned 21 literally a couple days ago. I’m scared, my pregnancy was awful I was bad HG was in hospital a few times and couldn’t get out of bed or go anywhere for so long! My family doesn’t live close, my partner works. How am I going to do this? Has anyone been in this situation? What is it like, truthfully please
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No advice, but I hope you’re okay ❤️ the trauma from being poorly in your last pregnancy will be so raw still, inbox is open if you need a chat xxxx

I have no advice but please reach out if you want to talk. Being pregnant is hard enough already. Xx

I was due in June and had my son 8 weeks early in April, very traumatic emergency birth and just learnt I’m also pregnant again. Do whatever is right for you and my inbox is always open if you want or need to talk. Going through a traumatic pregnancy/birth is not easy and can leave scars but you are strong and I powerful for getting through that and women are the most amazing, adaptive and strong creatures on the planet for what we endure so stay strong 🤍

I promise you that although the pregnancy will be tough and some days will feel like survival, you do find the strength to just get on with it and take care of your LO x

With all due respect, why are people shocked at becoming pregnant again so soon? They literally do tell you that you're very fertile in the months after birth, so you absolutely need to take precautions! I could not have 2 babies that close together, I think that would kill me off 😑 best of luck to you whatever you decide to do. But do remember, in 2024 women have options! Unless you live in the States, then not always, which is backwards IMO!

@Rebecca why say with all due respect and then be disrespectful? For your information, I did use a condom which broke, so had the morning after pill. Is that not taking precautions?? Yet I am still pregnant, and yes I am having my child hence why I asked what it’s like. If you don’t have any nice advice then sod off🙂

Don’t listen to anything negative, you will get through the rough patches and be a great mother to your children. People will always judge and think they know you and your story when they don’t. Keep your head up and wishing you all the luck and happiness with your little family!

Well said incognito! No one said they were shocked about being pregnant! Honestly you’ll be fine and your children will have such an incredible bond as they’ve got such a small age gap! 🥰

@Chloe thank you! I’m getting a lot more used to it now, or maybe it hasn’t really hit😅 thank you so much do appreciate it xxxx

@Nicola thank you so much! I will send you a wave xx

@Jen genuinely means so much to me! That’s the part I’m finding it hard is actually forgetting giving birth and the pregnancy last time. I keep thinking it’s going to go that way even tho I feel completely different 😅 thank you xx

@Kate I’m so glad to hear that! I was in bed alottt last pregnancy and I know I can’t do that this time for my boy, hope I just push thru it for him xx

@Kate she ended up blocking me after telling me to abort and my children would be better off without me🙃

@Jen thank you so much! Genuinely means a lot to me xx

I’m shocked! I’ve reported her!

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