I’m the exact same and I was in my first pregnancy too. It’s completely normal to be anxious ♥️ we just want our little bubs to be here and be safe but they’re happily tucked up in there ☺️ you can decide nearer the time want kind of birth you want too. I was dead set on a vaginal birth until I went over 40 weeks and he just kept getting bigger and bigger so opted for a c section and I don’t regret my decision. You’ll know what’s right for you and bump 🥰✨
Is a c section safer than vaginal birth? Ofc yes if clinically indicated, but otherwise not sure?
I think if it’s effecting you daily you should speak to your midwife to discuss your anxieties. In terms of birth plan, definitely do some research and keep your options open. I’ve found the hynobirthing book by Siobhan Miller super helpful to talk through different options! Xx