Baby fever

I want a second child but I fear my mental health might suffer 😅. I know I need to wait until we are financially stable and have a house but I’m scared of infertility. My daughter is 14 months old but I miss being pregnant and I want her to have a sibling. I think it would be a lot more responsible to wait 😅😭 anyone else feel this way? Maybe its just baby fever.
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Definitely feel similarly but I think my daughter would rather be financially stable than have a sibling 😭 I got an iud so I don’t have a choice. I wanted another baby so badly though.

@Elle yeah my daughter is clingy I don’t think she wants to share me 🤣 I think I will wait til shes 3 or 4 to start trying again lol

I felt the same way, but my mental health was so bad with my son, however life had other plans for me and I found out I was pregnant again at 6m 😭 I was like well okay I can do this! I have everything I need still, just need to upgrade my sons car seat. then at 7m found out it was twins…. My heart sank, my anxiety killed me. I felt so guilty because I wanted so badly to be happy, but man everything is already on me now and I stressed out big time. But my son was such a good baby I was like I’ll be ok!! I got this!! Started getting excited until 11m…. Ooooh boy once we hit that toddler stage I was like THIS IS GONNA BE ROUGHHHHH 😭🤣🤣🤣 I’m now 29 weeks and just want this pregnancy to end so I can hurry up and get through the newborn stage 😭 I’m terrified!

@Autumn wow!

Definitely been feeling way!

I can def relate!! But since I’m 36 years old we are hoping to start trying for a sibling for our daughter in a few months

Boy do you sound exactly like me last year 😂 I got pregnant again when my first was 11 months cause I ended up tracking “for the fun of it” and just couldn’t resist when I saw my ovulation window and I don’t regret it even if I’m still struggling financially and mentally it’s nothing like getting use to the 1st baby Someone once told me “1 is a lot but 2 is 100 but it all feels the same after 2” lol might have a 3rd in a couple years

i 100% relate 🥹 my first wasn’t planned at all & we were near ready for a baby , but by gods will we have been okay so far 🫶🏽 definitely wanna have a baby soon but then again I wanna mane sure we are financially stable due to how crappy our economy is right now

@Autumn omg blessed with twins! Aww you’ll make it mama! I hope you have amazing support from family and friends through your pregnancy and after. You got this!!

@Sonja hahah im trying to hold off 😩😅 im so excited for you adding to your family! thats awesome :)

Thank you so much. Not really any support which leads to my stress but I’m strong 💪

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