Regretting having kids
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Would it be an option for you to move closer to your family/ friends? It might give you a complete different perspective on it all when you have people that help and love you around x
Move back in with family if you can and they are willing to help you till you get back on your feet. Your kids deserve a happy mum and you deserve support. Your bf/ husband isn’t being a partner if he’s not helping. Hopefully he will realise what he’s lost and step up otherwise walking away is the right choice. you can claim universal credit, child benefit and csa. There is help available. You can also get help from the perinatal mental health team, don’t be afraid to ask your maternity team for help, your body will be going through loads of hormonal changes and it’s ok to be nervous/ not excited.
I'm based in Oxfordshire so give me a message if you are able to (not sure how this app works lol) and we could meet for a cuppa and I'll be a friendly ear for you to vent 😊
Pack up and go home!! You need support and when you have that, it’ll hopefully make you feel so much better.. your partner should understand that, especially if they’re lacking in that area 😒 It’s harsh and not ideal, but I would 100% go back home or certainly within a reasonable travel distance from my family, We’re doing this tbh.. my partner’s mum is our closest person and she’s USELESS, I’ve expressed my frustration and we’re moving closer to mine. Hope it works out x