Mums with multiple children

How did you cope with the pending arrival of your 2nd+ born? I am so so excited to meet our newest family member next week but my god the tears I have shed this last week every time I think about it no longer being me and our first. I never went back to work so for over a year it’s just been us every day and as awful as it sounds I’m so heartbroken about losing that and I am not coping well with the idea despite all the joy for our new little one

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I’ve been the same. I literally cry like mad when I think too much about it. Your babies are lucky to have a mumma who clearly has such a big heart!

@Sarah aww thank you. Yours too! It’s so hard isn’t it. I’m riddled with guilt for my first and then riddled with guilt for our second that she’s not got the same excitement as our first had because I’m sad for him. It’s endless

Oh my god. I am so so excited about this baby, and for giving my boy a brother, but I am heartbroken about how my relationship is about to change with my first. I literally love him and our time together so so much and our whole worlds are about to be turned upside down. I know he’s going to love being a big brother. So I get it. ❤️ Sending you so much love x

@Fran sending lots back to you! It’s really hard to come to terms with. He’s really my best little friend and favourite person and it’s just so hard to picture that change

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