@Ariel your experience being pregnant is far more different than mine. Both of my pregnancies were very textbook and not difficult at all aside from carpal tunnel with my twins and sciatica with my singleton. My labor and delivery with both were very quick. I guess for me I’m not too concerned about having years with just one as that was never an option for me as I started with twins.
Update was it twins lol ?
Nope. Personally I couldn't do that to myself. My baby is only 14 weeks. I'd hate to bring another one into the world without having at least a few years with just my son, and to settle down + make more money, as you said kids are expensive. Plus pregnancy was haed on my short self. Blood pressure was also not good at the end and had to be induced and then ran a fever after birth