Get on ya Square...

I guess.it can be a mix of B and D as they can be easily affected

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None but homes would be most likely. The space that they chose to live in (granted we aren’t judging by finances? And more how they look after it) will show more then likely what’s going on mentally. Overly clean I usually find that thst person isn’t a clean person in their mind tho. So really none

None? All of those could be a Trainwreck but they are just overwhelmed and don't get enough help, that doesn't mean they are necessarily "mentally unstable" or even anxious or depressed.

Nah I’m fucked if anyone’s judging me by the state of my car 😂

My car is a mess cuz I have a toddler, my house is a mess cuz I have a toddler, can’t afford new shoes, my hair is fine tho. I’m fairly mentally stable I think.

@Tabitha I agree with this.. I’m pretty ocd about my house and it stresses me out if it’s messy so I’m always cleaning it. But I struggle with a ton of anxiety and mental clutter so I think that’s why I need my living space clean

I am not shaming or judging anyone. It is okay- if you are not okay... Like Jelly Roll say. I just wanna know if people consider -these signs for red flags.

None of those are a reflection of anyone’s mental state.

None of the above. I don't see any of these in any conditions in the DSM.... My house is a mess because I have 2 kids and me and my partner both work. My car is a mess because I have 2 kids and use my car for work (I'm a cleaner) My shoes are probably a mess because I'm a cleaner, and don't really care about shoes 🙃 My hair is probably considered a mess because it's either in a ponytail or left down, and I have 2 kids and work so don't have a lot of hare care time 🙃 The best indicator of someone's mental state, is usually found in their action and behaviour, and through having a conversation with them..

@Laura 🍉🇵🇸✊🏻 but sometimes you can not tell with someones behavior... Because a con artist - lies so well ( most people believe them) ... Also the car - meaning the condition of the physical car itself - not what's in the car. Like if someone has no bumper, or a huge dent on the side of the vehicle, or one windshield wiper

I try to keep my house and car as clean as possible. I’ve never cared about my shoes even before my children. My hair is either in a homeless bun or a fresh blowout there is no in between.

@Raven then can’t afford it or is a bad driver?

@Raven yeah, a con artist isn't going to have a car looking like that, or keep it visible. Plus, a con artist can be mentally stable, so again.... This way of thinking is flawed and riddled with stigma. You've equated mental instability with criminality, which is fundamentally unfair. Mental health is incredibly complex. There are people who are extremely well presented, who are absolutely broken inside (partly to do with stigma), and messy/untidy people who are incredibly well adjusted.

@Laura 🍉🇵🇸✊🏻 welp. Thank you for participating in my questionnaire. You are entitled to your opinion. I will never spend a moment of my time arguing you or any other complete stranger 'down' about their own opinions. Especially since I asked for them. Have a blessed day

I mean, a couple of these can definitely be associated with depression.

As a certified head case I just wanna point out when I’m manic absolutely none of these would be a gauge. In fact, they’ll be OCD level perfectionist. Using just any of these can be deceptive.

@Nika this is exactly the point I was trying to make, thank you 🫶 What about Autistic individuals, or those living with ADHD, are they subject to the same criteria??? It's an overly simplistic metric for something as wholly nuanced and complicated as mental health and well-being.

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