Unsupportive partner need to rant
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You are a superhero a beautiful mom! Don’t feel sad for things you don’t deserve to hear
Hey love, it’s terrible you’re having this experience i know this has to be very hard on you. Please try to remember how amazing you are. He is projecting his insecurities on to you. Trying to make you feel as horrible as he does. This is no excuse at all but I hope it lessens the impact of his words. You know yourself better than anyone and your daughter is IN LOVE with you. If you can stay with family or stay with a friend for a little bit please do that. Get some clarity and write down how amazing you are and try to get realigned with yourself. I’m not saying leave him because that’s easier said than done, but when you can see and read how terrible your experience was it’s more validating and you can start asking yourself if this is how you want to live fr. I’m wishing you the best of luck I went through a similar experience. It started off as saying mean things and trying to degrade me to putting his hands on me within 8 weeks. So I had to learn how to maneuver. I’ve known that
man for 8 years and never once thought he’d do that. Having a baby can really bring the evil out in ppl it’s crazy. Not saying this to scare you or that this is your situation but it’s like when there’s no respect when arguing then there’s no boundaries to how far it can go too, you know ? Sorry for the long messages lmao!!! I guess I needed to vent too
Thank you so much for your messages they made me cry 😪 I know I’m a great mum but when I’m struggling or having a moment of losing my patience it’s hard not to believe the things he says to me . I sit and think maybe someone really will never love me . He clearly doesn’t . We’ve been together for 6 years and I’ve known for a while I’m better than the way he treats me .
@Karina I agree, I’m no angel I have a mean tongue too but there is no respect anymore we both speak to eachother like worst enemy’s . It’s just sad that this is what it’s come too .
Yeah it is sad.. for now! Me personally I’m excited to focus on myself and my baby. I’ve been chasing a sense of family for a long time and it made me keep the wrong ppl around. We all want a stable and secure home structure for our little ones. But sometimes that means co-parenting so they don’t see you fight and have to live in that energy. Thats what I think about so I can accept things and move forward positively. I hope you guys get to a place where you respect each other again. And I hope you guys learn to argue in a healthy progressive way. You’ll need that no matter what 🫶🏼
I’m so sorry you’re going through this🥹 you’re amazing! And you deserve to be uplifted and praised not put down and belittled. Can you not leave?xxx
You're an amazing woman!! You're a strong, beautiful, and awesome mother!! Don't let no one ever tell you you're not worth it because girl, you're amazing!! If anyone makes you feel less than, then kick that toxic man to the streets, hold your head up, and move on!!