Excruciatingly Painful Births

I have fourteen children and I’m almost full term pregnant with twins. I already have 3 sets of twins and 8 single babies. I had one stillbirth and have had three miscarriages. Epidural always fails. Never has worked over a total of 12 births. I don’t understand it’s like I’m cursed. I’m screaming crying moaning yelling cussing and becoming violent as I have had babies ranging from 8-13 lbs they are not Tiny! And you don’t want to hear our birth vlogs they are terrible and you’d be deaf ! I am in the worst possible pain and I’m told there’s nothing much they can do for me. I get ptsd every time I’m pregnant and in labor and I start crying and shaking because i know I have to go through this h e double hockey sticks again. I have torn all but four times and am extremely sensitive down there. With my fifth babies (first set of twins) I tore all the way back and then had to push a second baby out of that. WHAT ARE YALL USING AS PAIN MANAGEMENT OR TO HAVE A POSITIVEISH BIRTH

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Also I know y’all are going to say just stop having kids but no birth control works good for me without extreme pain for MONTHS, the condom usually breaks 😏, and planning around my ovulation certainly hasn’t worked either. I don’t know what to do. I am in my late 30s pregnant and my oldest is 17. we do it 2-3 times a week

it may sound dumb but my pain management during labor was just breathing. every time a contraction came on, i closed my eyes, swayed back and forth and focused on nothing but my breath. i spent the majority of labor on my hands and knees which was comfortable to me. move around and try out different positions. lots of mental affirmations too like every contraction brings you closer to baby, your body was made to do this, pain is temporary, things like that. i chose no pain medication and i managed very well, having a doula helped me a lot too

if you don’t mind me asking why can’t your husband get a vasectomy ? you’re superwoman for having that many kids!!

I agree, why can’t your husband get the snip?

Yeah couldn’t your husband get cut or with your twins you might end up with a c section and just get your tube tied then?

I'm not being rude hun, my 1st child was born 14 yrs ago . In the last 14 years, I've been on the coil and still done the pull out method despite being on contraception because i did not want to get pregnant . I'm pregnant because I removed my coil and planned my pregnancy around my ovulation. As women, we can do stuff to avoid pregnancy, especially since we know our bodies better than anybody. You mention that contraception cause you pain have you spoken to a medical professional about this and since you married why can't your husband using contraception or consider vasectomy if you don't want to keep having kids but if you do want to keep having kids pls ignore my message as you are entitle to do what is best for your family. All the best in your recent pregnancy

Look into doing a hypnobirthing course. But you are gunna have to get your contraception solved because you can’t just keep having babies so maybe husband get the snip x

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