Pregnant and alone

Hi ladies - just wondering if there are any first time mums out there like me, 40 yrs old, and doing this journey alone. I always dreamt of this time growing up and thought I’d be in a nice big house with a loving husband and it would all be magical. But instead my partner was awful to me and I’m keeping my distance from him (not together now) and everything has felt so lonely and rough. I don’t even have a home to organise yet and I’m 32 weeks, just staying with family. Feels miserable. Don’t get me wrong - I’m eternally grateful for this baby and will shower the baby with love until the end of time ❤️ Just depressing reading of all the support others have from their partner or the fun they are having decorating a nursery and I know I don’t have a partner or a home. Anyway… nearly there Jan 2025 ladies stay strong 💪🏼 our fun time is around the corner!
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Not a first time mum but used a friend to help me second time around so I done everything on my own

Sending hugs ❤️ I’m not in the same situation but it took me years to conceive, and I’ve been robbed of the whole experience because of hyperemesis. I understand the feelings you have when you compare yourself to other people who are doing the things you dreamt of. Hope you start to feel better soon xx

Not a first time mom a second time around mom and I’ll be 38 when I have my second your not alone mama sending you hugs and positive vibes you got this 🌺❤️

Honestly babies don’t need newly painted nurseries, they need love ❤️ not long left lovely! It will be the best thing in your whole life xxx

Im a first time single mum at 40, living at home, don’t worry there is no ‘right way’ to do it! All that baby needs is you and love, societal norms don’t work anyway, you’ll Do the best you can and it’ll be enough, your baby doesn’t need anything else to thrive x

I can tell you partners are not usually what they are cracked up to be either haha a lot of women say they are a hindrance!

Dm me if you like!

There are ladies on here single mums by choice late 30s early 40s. Your not alone. Xxx promise You get a fresh start to build a chapter with baby , how awesome is that. And yes not all sunshine and rainbows with my fella. First and second trimester were hell. We don't have any friends and family around us either. Embrace the love and support from your friends and family. If you want to message I'd love to be part of your support network x

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