Feeling super lonely

Being a stay at home mom with major health issues and nobody ever understands and I wouldn’t expect people to understand , but being able to talk with an adult have getting out of the house just to breath just to take in the fresh air I’m starting to feel like more of a maid and house keepers than a mother I love my kids very much I’m married but end the end of the day who cooks for me who cleans for me who props my feet up when my legs hurt from running around after a one year old it’s always me .

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Hi girl you’re not alone! I’m in the same situation I sometimes have a hard time trying to understand my role and end up frustrated…just to let you know I’m here if you want to chat or something. ❤️‍🩹

Completely understand !!! I work part time and it’s the same way for me!! Super exhausting and you feel like you’re just cleaning up after everyone and no one helps.. and when you voice your opinion they just think moms/wife losing it again lol .. try your best to make time for your self.. even if you have to put the kiddos to sleep 15mins earlier so you can gather yourself and have your time to do what you need to do..

As a mom we all neglect ourselves and isolate ourselves. Our identity becomes our kids and it is up to us to take care of ourselves not anyone else’s job. It just takes being consistent and executing it…. Put the baby down for naps every day same time 12-3 that gives you 3 hrs to yourself to do whatever. Put the baby down to sleep early like 7:30-8 depending how lil they are. That gives you time to unwind before bed. Take a bath with candles and bubbles or bath salt. Wake up early before the kids and again do something for yourself that will help start your day. Take the kids to places other mom go like the park and make friends there. Go for walks with the kids, I know my 2 year old loves walk. And talk to your partner if you haven’t done so already. Maybe ordering out on a Friday night rather then cooking would be nice. We all been there, you’re not alone.

Sending hugs 🤗

When my baby naps I tell myself the day before I’m going to put her down for a nap and maybe do my toes or read a book but I end up taking a nap my one year old loves walking she always has me outside it would just be nice to have friends , the moms at the park near me are horrible they give me the stank eye and I’m always the one smiling and trying to make friends

@Cindye THIS needs to be a post. Your whole comment should be a post for the women that need it. A lot of girls get on here making the same complaints and this right here is pretty much the answer. It’s how I survived as a single mom as well

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