Men vs. Women Sexuality

Ew I would not be calling someone who says that stuff my husband

That’s wrong. Men are not made to be non-monogamous by the size of their testicules. So humans, both women and men are made to be monogamous. https://www.youtube.com/live/7Dtv8ibI1vk?si=cRdygBzV2W9M_9Jv Here it’s a very, very interesting podcast about humans’ nature and their history, if you have the patience to watch everything. I would honestly watch it again.

“In wild nature” meaning what exactly?? Cave man times? Cause guess what buddy you’re wrong there too. Men were “hunters” because they were disposable/replaceable. Women held down villages, elders who could not hunt or do much physically would lead. Men were meat used to hunt more meat.

also, anyone has the capacity for being attracted to multiple people at once, it doesn’t inherently make it okay for anyone to go off cheating.

Also do you know how many men do not do jack diddly fucking squat without severe instruction they swear they don’t need & call nagging but cry & whine when they don’t receive it.

@Parker 又 right when I read “ I’m wild nature “ I’m looking around like what ?! 😂😂😂 I didn’t know we was birds 🦅

@Olivia like ???? Even if you look at animals, again men are viewed as disposable or replaceable that’s why they hunt, not just cause their stronger or bigger

@Olivia You don't know my husband, he is the best. But he does have some things that he says sometimes that we dispute on. All in peaceful ways

glad it works for you but I wouldn’t be with someone who spoke out me like that , woman like that , I would find it very unattractive and unappealing I don’t believe you can disagree on something like that and raise kids but that’s just me

@𝐼𝑜𝒶𝓃𝒶 Thank you for the link, need to show it to him. I watched a few documentaries about it in german where the result was that both are monogamous while still being attracted to other people too

@Parker 又 THANK YOU!

@incog I personally can’t be attracted to multiple men at once. It’s a difference between being aware someone is good looking and being attracted to someone, but of course there are exceptions.

He seems misogynistic

Men do biologically reset on a 24 hour period, but that just explains why their hormones fluctuate less & why they need less sleep per night to function properly the next day. It literally just proves men should be doing MORE without complaining. 🤣

Oh, I just noticed the second statement “In wild nature the woman is completely dependent on the man’s protection and strength and therefore doesn’t get to choose her partner”. It’s completely wrong because in fact talking about animals, females are the ones the choose the males. Most of the animals males have to put on a show to attract the female and/or fight other males to get the female. And in our world, human world the men have to ask women on dates, bring flowers and do all nice things to get a woman so the truth is the women choose the men and not the other way around.

Does your husband know the year is 2024?

Ew. I would not be able to be with someone that thought about women that way. He's also dead wrong about the "in nature" comment. Female animals always choose the mate, it's why male animals are prettier and have more decorative features....to attract mates.

All I'm gonna say is that in nature, in MANY animals it's the male that has to impress the female/get her attention/be chosen. Next time y'all have sex, if you do, whip out the female praying mantis move afterwards and bite his head off 💅🏻

@Olivia Don't think this alone would be a reason for divorce for u if you had someone extremely loyal and loving who spoils you and supports you with literally everything. He says that when we have a discussion about it specifically, like if I ask him if he ever finds other women attractive cause I know it's natural but what disturbs me is him saying, yes it's my nature to feel things but the main thing is how I act on them. And that women are less likely to feel THE AMOUNT of attraction. So trying to prove how much more a man needs to keep himself sober whereas I am trying to explain to him that me being loyal to him is not because I am not attracted to anyone but because of my decision

@Parker 又 Sorry, could you word it differently? Don't understand haha😂

@Olivia No cause we were talking about evolutionary reasons and arguments for why us humans are the way we are so that was his argument, that one man could "support" and multiply with lots of women at the same time while a woman needs her 1 man to take care of her during pregnancy and postpartum

Yeah so men sometimes don’t understand that biologically speaking; women need more rest due to the way their hormones exist & function (women function on a monthly cycle where their hormones reset entirely) because men reset every 24 hours, so they literally cannot comprehend not doing that. But scientifically there’s proof that men require less sleep than women, which is also why they were chosen as hunters over women. Meaning like they didn’t go out just cause they were big & tough, it’s cause their bodies function on a daily reset. Were as women function on monthly resets & needed longer periods of rest more frequently

@MK Guys can you please stay respectful about my husband? All I asked for is your opinions on these thoughts, not to put him down, he is my person and it hurts me that you guys say that. I didn't ask if you'd be with my husband

@Alex 🤣🤣🤣

And it carries into present day especially with growing families with children! “Home makers” are just tending to your individual village all day, holding council meetings, while, the dad, the breadwinner is just out, talking to other adults getting paid to do so….. men shouldn’t cry about needing to interact with their children once their home from their jobs, or doing the dishes or the laundry, they have the capacity for it. Scientifically it’s proven.

@Parker 又 Yes so it makes me so angry that some men still say that they are in any way more determined or strong because...a pregnant woman stands there cooking while holding her toddler and calling about an appointment all at once while checking the calendar and wiping the surfaces... and the biggest complaint women have about men is that they are lazy and don't help. So who is the stronger and superior one🥱

Only thing I can say is that man ARE build differently mentally and phisicly and it's a fact. I don't know why all women wants to be same as man as we are not and will never be 🙂

Exactly. If you’re a big strong provider, provide yes, but also match my level of nurture. If your sooo superior due to your gender, then show me be the provider and just like me or better than me at home too LMFAOO

I let my husband know please don’t get your feelings hurt AGAIN trying to do some shit you see other people doing because over here you will get your feelings and ego hurt how quick I’ll hop on another better man same day spent his mind he never played again eyes been ok every since lmao because if u are an animal im made from your rib so u say which means so am i 😂🤗

@Santa But that's not my point. My point is, we are both loyal to each other and he tells me that while for me as a woman it is completely natural, for a man it requires a control over his impulses and so a good mam will stay loyal. And that's while there are so many women that in fact also have impulses or thoughts to cheat but decide not to. So how is it the woman's nature?

@Parker 又 So my husband does but I can see all around me women complaining about their husband not ever doing anything, about having to beg him to lift his finger or watch the kids. So even though my husband lives up to his belief it's not an argument for me that can be generalized as I see other men being the opposite

I have an Instagram account for you to show him it’s a man who shares amazing facts related to pregnancy , parenthood & science (: lemem find it lolol

@incog almost all of the things people think are social construct and they believe those things because they hear them growing up such as “men are cheating more because of their nature”. They are all lies and these beliefs come from not being educated about the truth. Only because since the beginning of the humanity the men were the ones bringing the bread and the women stayed home taking care of it and the children, when we got more educated men were still in charge of “going outside” and so that’s why not long, long, long ago women got rights. Til this day the social construct is that men are better than women and they are not equal or women can never be better than men. That’s the reason people (mostly men) believe men ca do whatever they want because of their “nature” when in fact, it’s completely false and it’s a lie created by men and they brainwashed women. Fortunately less and less people believe these things, but unfortunately people that have this mindset still exist.

@𝐼𝑜𝒶𝓃𝒶 Agree💯

Eh. There are genuine biological differences between mens and womens bodies and brains. But this isn't one of them.

What is he, an orang-utan?

I think if men are more likely to cheat it would be because of the “boys will be boys” mentality a lot of people find acceptable in our society

Idrk if they’re more likely to cheat tho I haven’t looked into it

@Victoria~ my guy friend says women cheat more

Does he watch alot of red pill content? saying women don’t get to choose their sexual partners is almost justifying SA!

@Gifty it’s probably hard to get an accurate number to compare cuz I assume most people don’t want to tell everyone they’ve cheated 😅

ew i’d ask him if he’s a civilized person or a wild animal lol and tell him to go outside like a dirty dog if he tries to be a smartass

Incorrect, women are the choosers in nature (that’s why male birds have so many colors to win the female over, etc) because women have more to lose over choosing a bad partner. That being said, single men do want to spread their genes around more, whereas women need to protect themselves more and be selective. When a man gets into a serious relationship, his testosterone drops slightly so he can protect his woman instead of looking at the girl nextdoor, and even more when he has children so he can keep his mind on protecting them. The book “this is your brain on birth control” breaks hormones down really well. But men do have a higher sex drive (testosterone) than women and are more likely to look at other attractive people than women. Just how it works. It’s also said that “men influence society, women adapt to it”. We can adapt to pretty much anything, maybe that sucks but it is generally how our brains work.

Men and women are different. But the specific things your husband is saying are stupid.

@Kelsea Thanks for the book recommendation!

Well no it’s definitely not a reason for divorce , like I said I’m glad it works for you , I presume that’s something you talk about before you got married and you was okay with that , I wouldn’t let it get to the point of marrying/ having kids someone with them views