Found a picture

So, I was having doubts in my relationship, going outside and having the feeling that my husband was looking at other girls. I went to his phone last night, looking at the pictures he took. I found a picture of a woman he took when he was at work, so he took this picture of her kind of hiding the phone with his case/computer or something so the girl wouldn’t notice it. He was my boyfriend at that time, but we got married like 6 months after that. I asked about that picture, he said I don’t know why I took it, maybe a mistake, but he ended up saying he took it because the girl was pretty. He didn’t see her again because he’s always working in different places every time and with different people. When we met we said we wouldn’t tolerate things like that, he said he was extremely loyal and stuff, we were cheated on by our partners previously. I am so hurt. I would like to know your thoughts girls!

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I’m sorry firstly you having doubts about your relationship, secondly I can related, as I have been in a similar position. Feel free to message me to chat. X

Ugh I hate that for you:( I find it even stranger that the pic was taken on the down low. I want to read this book called 41 shades of men. I guess atleast he was honest at one point but still. Sorry again 😔

I totally get where you’re coming from—I’ve been through something similar in a previous relationship. We agreed to move past it, but honestly, I couldn’t let it go, even though he swore up and down that nothing happened. It’s hard to just brush things off, even when they promise there was no bad intention. In your case, it sounds like he was honest and admitted he only kept it because she was pretty, and you still chose to get married after that. If you feel safe, comfortable, and still deeply love him, I’d say it might be worth really trying to let it go for the sake of your relationship. But if this keeps eating at you or makes you question things, it’s okay to put your well-being first. That’s just my perspective, though—I truly wish you the best, sweetie, no matter what you decide.

This is your fault for sure because why would you proceed to marry him and he lied then marry him and be shocked he lied 😂😭

@Elizabeth I thank you so much for your support, I am still processing it I feel so confused, I really need to talk to someone so I appreciate your support 🥺

@Lexy I thank you for your emotional support 🥺 especially because I do not have any friends here and feeling supported by other girls means a lot to me 🥺

@Karla I thank you for your answer 🙏 it is incredible how just reading this makes me feel a little bit better and supported 🥺 especially when it comes from girls who lived a similar situation, I know it is hard to move on after such a difficult situation but I appreciate your message 🥺

I think this is extremely creepy behaviour. Is everything else ok in your relationship?? I would be so upset if this was my partner that took the pic 😢

@Aryyy, please read her post. She just found out last night. The photo was taken while they were dating and kept this whole time. Again, she just found out. Maybe apologise to OP.

@Hannah this is correct! I just found the picture like two days ago. We have been married for a year now. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@Liz, I honestly don't know how I'd react if I were you. It's weird, and he shouldn't have taken it. I get she was pretty, but what purpose does having her picture serve? I'm really sorry you are dealing with this.

@Liz know that we are here and you are not going through this alone xx

@Elizabeth yeah, I am trying to be in the relationship but I feel so anxious and nervous and don’t trust him 😓.

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