Am I wrong for this?

I wouldn't say you're wrong for feeling that way but you would be wrong if you stop this man from having a relationship with HIS child, it's not just your child. You don't have to be in a relationship with him, you can co-parent. The child deserves to have both mum and dad in their life if dad actively wants to be involved.

I wouldnt of told him i was pregnant u should say its someone elses

@Jennifer that’s disgusting how are you going to potentially stop a child from having a father from lying saying that it’s not his. Unfortunately it’s not about her in this situation it’s about the child, and if he isn’t a danger to the child he deserves to have a part in their life regardless of whether she is “embarrassed” of him, I think that’s pretty childish to even say, imagine not wanting someone to be a dad because you’re embarrassed of the person you slept with.

I think regardless of your feelings you need to let him be part of the child’s life if that’s what he wishes. If he doesn’t then I guess you have no problems but if he does you shouldn’t take that from him.

Choose wisely on who you sleep with from now on. Sex isn’t something to just be having with anyone. You also can’t prevent him from seeing his baby, that would be wrong on so many levels.

Don’t pay attention to the judgemental comments, those women are not in your shoes! It’s a complicated situation and only you know what would the right decision be xx What’s crucial is that you are happy and safe as this baby needs a mama who is well :)

I’m curious why you’re embarrassed of him?

Unfortunately you can’t not let him be in his child’s life ..so no he can’t leave you alone.

That’s not just your baby. Don’t be selfish. That’s his baby as well and he has every right to be in the baby’s life.

You weren’t embarrassed of that dick so I don’t think that you should be embarrassed of him it’s his child why be disrespectful like that? And a man doesn’t have the right to be upset and raging at women like you? Shameful behavior no other way around it I’ll get cussed out for this but how dare you poor guy.. he should be embarrassed of you

Yes, you are absolutely wrong. You don't need to be in a relationship to co-parent, and you can not deny this man a relationship with his child if he is willing and able to be in his child's life. You also can not deny your child a relationship with their father. Your decisions are yours alone, and part of making decisions is taking responsibility and living with the consequences, as hard as they are some times. And let's make something perfectly clear, this child is ALSO HIS! Don't be selfish.

Unfortunately actions have consequences- you’re pregnant and if you plan to keep it, he deserves to be a part of the baby’s life and the baby deserves to know their father - your priority has to be your child now. You don’t have to be together but you need to be amicable for your baby!

@Jennifer that's wrong

You're not wrong for feeling how you do, but you do not have the right to deny your child access to their father. The fact you're considering that is quite frankly vile tbh. How could you morally be OK with that? I know I couldn't be

@✨Vina✨ this!!! I'm so glad someone said it!

I don’t mean to be blunt here but you obviously had sex with no protection and now you’re pregnant you don’t think he has a right to know? That’s his child too, nobody said you have to be with him but keeping him away is so wrong

I think as other moms we should not shame her because it’s clear she has a lot of feelings about this whole situation, and I’m really sorry girl Ik maybe you want someone to agree with you it’s just really hard to. I hope you do make the right choice. But also know that we all are human we make mistakes. Mistakes do come with consequences but it’s not the end of the world I’m sure everyone has made a mistake they regret be graceful with yourself and take care of yourself too

@Jessy I disagree with your advice ‘as long as you are happy’ you cant just do what makes you ‘happy’ this man is entitled to be a father to his child. It’s not his fault she is embarrassed of the decision she made while intoxicated. A baby is a blessing regardless the circumstances and both parents deserve to be aware and involved (as long as he is no threat to mum or baby) this whole mentality of as long as you’re happy forget anyone else is soo selfish and wrong.

@Astrid thank you!

@✨Vina✨ personally I don’t care what you would get cussed out for, we aren’t the same people, keep your projections in house. I was indeed embarrassed about “that dick” hence why it only happened once i was VERY intoxicated. - he could NEVER be embarrassed by me.

@Sam the thing is HE is only concerned about being in a relationship with ME, nothing to do with the baby. He didn’t attended no appointments, he just partied with friends. He only wants to be around to be around me and say “he’s with me, he has a baby with me” - I don’t feel his presence is genuine, so I just want to keep my baby away from that fake energy.

Yes very wrong lol! U never sleep with somebody u won’t be ok having a baby with for this reason 🤦🏾‍♀️ why tf fuck would I lay down wit you if I can’t even take you in public like I never got when people did that 😂

You seem extremely immature! Have the baby keep the child away from the father. And we’ll see how your child will view you in the future. Actions have consequences and you seem to keep on making bad mistakes.

As I’ve said to every other dizzy ass female GIRL BOO you WAS NOT embarrassed by that dick! You was drunk and fucking don’t try to say he raped you wtf you’re disgusting! 🤮 so because you got drunk was most likely the one feeling all up on him giving him the ok to fuck this is YOUR fault ENTIRELY grow tf up and let that man be in his baby’s life and idk if that were my son I’d be so embarrassed for him because he has to deal with a trashy woman like you your looks mean squat diddly shit it’s you and a person you’re gross you should be embarrassed asking this question and believe me my projections are most likely coming from a place of hurt for your fling and now baby daddy POOR MAN he should be a dead beat so that you can learn a lesson do t be foolish with your kowchie 🤷🏾‍♀️