Is she weird or no?

Listen to your gut. She’s being a sneaky snake

I only bring it up bc yesterday was his bday an the woman posted on his page saying “happy birthday I miss you❤️” an she just bothers me but I’ve never said anything about it because I never have to see her but he’s mentioned how he would invite her to our wedding when we have one an I just think it’s weird you’d want someone at our wedding who you’ve never had the intention to introduce me or our child to. If someone’s important to me I’m going to make sure they have a relationship with my partner so anyway not a big deal but just was curious if anyone could understand where I’m coming from

Personally I think she’s overstepping a lot of boundaries.

She wants your bf 100%

Everything sounded semi normal to me until you hit me with the her dog has the same name as your bf and her husband looks like a knock off version of him. Definitely very weird almost sounds obsessive. I hope he has her cut off and blocked especially since she’d reach out a lot?

She is definitely being waaaay too extra

@Christine I about shit myself when I realized her dog an him have the same name an it’s not a very popular one it’s Brodey. My bf’s nickname is Bro, an she posted a dog birthday post and said “my Brodey (bro)” like that’s literally what we call my bf, everyone in his family does so as well. She was a cheerleader and he played football, an if you saw this woman she just seems like she’s still in this highschool mentality idk how to explain it but my bf’s mom has mentioned to me how she never left her hometown and just is very “I peaked in highschool and that’s my mindset” if you know what I mean.

@Ana Moore exactly! Like it’s just doing too much I feel

@Keeley I agree but can you be a bit more specific because I feel silly but also not. I just can’t find the right way to explain it

I don’t know how to explain it either 😂. I just think there’s being a friend and then being way too over the top about a friendship/relationship.

She DEFINITELY has more than friend feelings for your man!!!

YOU GUYS IM SCREAMINGGGGG. LmFAO. New information!!! I just went to check her profile pictures because again I am curious and SHE POSTED MY MAN AS HER PROFILE PICTURE. (My man used to do modeling.) SHE POSTED HIS HALF NAKED MODELING PICTURE AS HER PROFILE PICTURE.!!!!!! Help me 😭😭😭😭😭😭

No she didn't...🙄

@Violeta💕 wdym? do you want me to post it😅

Just crazy how it’s been years and some people don’t let go of things! Like I only went to school 7 years ago and I never would go out my way to invite them to my wedding when my partner hasn’t met them etc, and the sneaky comments and dog name is kinda funny but I totally get if you bring it up men are like it’s nothing blah blah! But maybe tell him how you find it’s odd etc he may even understand then at least he knows how you feel. Also that’s really funny about the picture I would totally be commenting on it if I was you ! It’s like she wanted you to see these things like didn’t you say she has a husband? Some people are just deluded and can’t let go of the past I take it from all this is a ex surely or just someone who was obsessed with him in school. Like what did your partner say about her profile pic?

Sure lol

@Chloe no it’s hilarious how strangely obsessed someone can be. I laughed about it originally but now it’s just become weird to me and I can’t wrap my head around it. I haven’t talked to him about it bc I never felt the need but it just recently started to bug me. Idk if he knows about her making him her profile picture tbh bc I just found it rn so maybe he didn’t

I have unpopular opinion, I don't see anything wrong. 🤷‍♀️😁

@Santa that’s totally fine!

Just read about profile picture, that's weird, I would talk to your partner and see we're he stands on it 🙌

She's obsessed.

@Santa until it's your man?...

@Violeta💕 the things she wrote in post isn't nothing much, my husband has old lady friends, that congratulate him not me and has met some too. I'm not worried because I know we're he stands and I trust him 🤷‍♀️😁

@Santa k

You need to speak to your man!! She's OBSESSED!!! This is not normal!!!

Okay it's the profile picture of your man that's got me a 😵‍💫😵‍💫

@Santa I didn't either until the profile picture comment....it all adds up to being quite odd

Girl wtf that lady is obsessed and he should eithier cut ties or atleast set boundaries because him dangling her around might be feeding her delulu I know he has no intentions with that lady but her on the other hand she seems obsessed

She sounds obsessed. Talk to your man about it. It might be that he’s not getting how crazy obsessed this woman is

Omg could she be anymore obsessed?! 🙈 the pp is just the cherry on the cake! 😅🤣 wtaf!! I would 100% talk to your man about it - please keep us updated if you do!! He should absolutely be blocking and deleting her 🙈

Not gonna lie I had maybe like 10 counts of benefit of the doubt points for this post but then you provided like 20 cases where you can’t argue that lmao that’s odd And even if somehow It’s not like that I’d still make damn sure she don’t come to my wedding lol god forbid she crashes it

The way I was cringing for the whole 5mins I read this post. Byeee I would not be okay with her not moving tf on…. Yall 40 you say? 😧

I accidentally hit maybe harmless, but that shit is weird

Ok so I hit maybe harmless but new info deffos not 😂😂😂 see the thing is tho even if it’s not harmless the stuff in the original post woulda pissed me off like the inviting him and not mentioning u and commenting that for every tom dick and Harry to see … also speak to ur partner and see what this is all about because that’s what matters xxx even if she’s not being harmless maybe ur partner did nothing or doesnt care enough to think twice and she’s just being thirsty lmaooo

Also the dog thing is pycho weird no offence .. just thinking about naming my dog after an ex or a good friend that could have been something gives me the heebie jeebies because i would know but my poor husband wouldn’t and even that feels like cheating. U said she’s married or has a husband so I just feel that’s weird 🤮🤮

Boys and girls can’t be friends

Yeah no ask him what he thinks if you had a male friend saying all thaaat would he have a problem with it? (If you had same history and all)

To me any female friend is a red flag if ur not comfortable with it but if u have a gut feelin sum aint right then sum definitely aint right trust ur gut before anyone else coming from a spiritual person

She wants his attention very bad but it sounds like he’s not giving her the kind of attention she wants. Which is why she’s trying so hard. (Which is good for you, he seems trustworthy, he probably doesn’t respond to the get together private messages which is why she does it publicly). You could tell him she weirds you out a bit and would rather not invite her, but I wouldn’t fight over it either. How disrespectful to her own husband though 😂

It’s giving she wish she was his wife and not you lol and now she is gonna try to annoy you away with passive aggressive behavior til he checks it lol

Update; first THANK YOU ALL for making me not feel crazy. Often times I question myself whether things are worth bringing up and I appreciate the reassurance that you’re all seeing what I’m seeing given the circumstances. We talked, and at first it didn’t go well but he did say he would not be inviting anyone to our wedding that makes me uncomfortable, and that yes he thinks it’s weird but it was so long ago that he doesn’t think she’s still obsessed with him. He also mentioned how him and I are different. How I approach my friendships vs him. I am the type of person like I will make sure my partner is involved and has met these people/or at least knows of them and who they are where as he’s a bit more to himself and will only bring people up if he were to ever see them. I’m more of an open book personality and he’s more private. It’s always been hard for me to understand it as that doesn’t feel safe to me personally because at times things can feel hidden. He’s aware of this an we’ve

Pt. 2 - made lots of progress in communication and transparency. This is just another one of those things we have to work towards. He said if we were to ever visit his home town there’s going to people he’s going to reach out to, to see but that I would be involved in that and present. I’m just not personally like that and it’s going to be an adjustment to me. All in all, he won’t be removing her or anything of that sort I also don’t want her to think anything of it or that she gets under my skin because she is irrelevant. She’s just weird. I did tell him though that for me, I just need him to be more transparent about his relationships and open to how I feel about them when they are so obviously weird and to put himself in my position. So it kinda went fine. I feel okay about it, but I did say we entered this relationship BOTH agreeing opposite sex friendships are not okay to either of us and I said if he changes his mind on that then to lmk because that’s a deal breaker for me

I don't think there's anything wrong with the comments she left on SM, I feel like you're creating something that isn't there tbh. You need to ask yourself why this woman makes you feel so insecure in your relationship?

@Rebecca I mean I still personally think it’s weird that she made him her profile picture and named her dog after him and acts inappropriately in her* own marriage cause I just personally wouldn’t do any of these things and know my partner would feel uncomfortable with someone like that but I can understand and respect your perspective for sure. It can absolutely mean nothing now but that’s just not how I see it Edit: to me it gives fan behavior, like when kids put Justin Bieber or something on their wall. To do that as an adult is weird especially when its not a celebrity

I don’t think he should be talking to her anymore, seems like it’s jeopardizing your mental health which is not okay. Your thoughts and feelings should be first 🤍

She’s the type to comment on his picture saying “I want to fuck you” and when you go off on her she’ll say “oh I didn’t mean it like that omg never!” I hate women like that 🤬 I know we are supposed to act like “ladies” but I would knock her ass into place. Ur man needs to ignore her, and when she doesn’t stop her shenanigans you get on that ass and remind her who you are, who ur man is to you, and what he’s about to be (a father to UR child) and tell her you can see through her bullshit and it stops here.

Ooo I dealt with a very similar situation. Get her out y’all’s life! Trust me! Especially if he never introduced you to her, but she was Soo “involved” in his life. Get her outtt. Blocked! No more bs 😩 made my blood boil. My husband and I are 24&25 and I’m dealing with a girl that I think is about to turn 21 or 22 and she’s a model and she got a Temu version of my husband and they were close.. blah blah blah.. 😅 I won’t rant much more, but def make him stop! This behavior is too much!

It’s insane that she named her dog after him for sure. I think that’s a bit obsessive, but the other stuff sounds like a normal way for a girl to interact with her friends. What’s weird is that he didn’t seem to introduce you to her so that she could be your friend too. Men are allowed to have female friends and if you’re in a secure relationship there’s nothing to worry about. 40% of my husband’s friends are women, including his lifelong best friend from childhood, and they say stuff like “you’re gonna be the best dad ❤️” and “I miss you we need to hang out soon!” Like, I’d say the same stuff to my guy friends too, I don’t think that’s weird. I’m eternally grateful that I got a bunch of girl besties along with my dream husband and I think the fact that he has an almost even gender distribution of friends made him a much better partner. Just pay attention to how your husband interacts with her vs how he interacts with you because his behavior is the only thing that matters.