He cheated on me again.

Also he doesn’t view this as cheating… because it’s not physical. He’s been hiding his phone from me for weeks now. Won’t even cuddle on the couch with me at night. Probably because he wants to be on his phone and he’s afraid I’ll see something. It’s all lies, non stop lies. Even when you catch them they just keep lying…

He will always do it so it’s up to you if you want to deal with it or not

Depression isn’t an excuse for cheating. Because you’ve already given him a chance, him an ultimatum: he gets help and stops messing around on you or that’s it. If that’s not enough to stop his behaviour then it’s time to move on because he doesn’t deserve you or your daughter. I’m so sorry you’re going through this ❤️

Do you have family or friends to go to. You don’t want to stay and put your kid through all of this. They deserve better! And staying just teaches your kid that’s how relationships should be… show your kid that settling for a cheater is never an option. After a second affair I don’t know if trust can ever be repaired.

Ur problem is thinkin your can’t afford life without him. This isn’t the old days you clearly like what you are dealing with and plan on staying so vent and go lay down. Because if you don’t plan on loving yourself or standing up and getting what you deserve then be quiet take it and move on wit the miserable days you have chosen! Orrrrrrr stand up love yourself want better for yourself and get out of there you CAN do whatever with or without a man and I’m sorry you feel differently!

Let him go! Things may get worse before they get better but they certainly are not going to get any better living the way you are. You've gotta dig deep and do what you need to do. write some lists. What do you want in a partner? What kind of partner do you want your children to have when they grow up? Is what he's doing a reflection of that? What kind of dad do your children deserve? Why are you staying with him? Why did you stay with him? Do your answers hold truth to them? Is he making you happy? Does he love you? Sometimes seeing answers in black and white can be enough for you to actually see how things are. I don't know your whole situation but I'd be gone. I'd have been gone the first time. Definitely the second time. Sorry you're going through it 🫂

i think the important word here is in the title of your post.. “again” if he’s cheated on you once before and now again, then you’ve got to think about what’s best for your own happiness at this point. he’s wouldn’t do this again if he had genuine remorse for it happening the first time. sending love and i things work out for you x

If I was you I wouldn’t trust him either but regardless you’re not happy and you & your little one deserve better! I hope you find a better situation! Any family members or friends you could move in with for a while? Hoping the best for you x

@Rachel ya I think it’s kind of over now, we just bought a condo together in May so I’m so stressed to make the payments now

Hope you’re okay! I think sitting down to talk about the condo/mortgage is best moving forward, You’ve got to think about what you want and what’s best for you and your little one! x

@Rachel thank you 🤍 I appreciate it

I miss him so much, it hurts so bad

I can only imagine how you feel, buying a home and starting a family for him to do this to you! His priorities should have been you&your little one I’m sure any respectable men would agree with me! But try be thankful he showed his true colours now! I’m not saying It won’t be tough right now but next year when you look back you’ll think why didn’t you leave his cheating ass sooner and you’ll be happier! X