Cancelling
My child’s father cancelled on him Thursday saying he can no longer have him overnight as his work asked if he could do an extra shift and he won’t tell them no so on Thursday he only had him 10am-3:30 and then his mother dropped the baby home at 4:30 and he’s just messaged me again saying he might have to cancel again tomorrow because he doesn’t feel 100% and it’s kicking his ass. All my friends understand why I’m getting annoyed this isn’t the first time he’s cancelled for work or something similar to not feel 100% but then been fine and out with friends. My mother doesn’t really understand why I get so annoyed with it as the baby doesn’t understand yet (he’s almost 15 months)
It’s actually annoying. Try having baby daddy make the plans and then cancel hours before. But wait, not on his own accord…i had to reach out to see if we were still on and he told me no cause something came up. His interview person was late. Common sense would have told him to text me that as soon as he found out. That was the last straw for me. He ruins literally every set up we have. I’m cutting him completely out by next year, he already doesn’t do much for our son or talk to him so idc anymore myself.