Postpartum

I’m 6 days postpartum. I can’t stop crying and feeling down. After my first son my husband and me separated for a little bit in that time he was with someone else. Now I’m scared it’s gonna happen again after my second. It’s been 2 years since then but I just don’t know if he can handle me postpartum just like he couldn’t handle it the first time
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I feel so sad hearing this 😞 you deserve so much more! And whether he can handle it or not he needs to man up a bit 🙄 no one is exactly pleasant postpartum, our bodies are dealing with a lot you shouldn't have to deal with worrying about that on top of everything ❤️ if possible you should definitely try to speak to him about how you're feeling and that you're worried xx

So sad and men are so selfish. You’ve had alot to deal with. X

That man is selfish and actually can’t believe that he left you when you needed him the most to be with someone else??? So sorry. I understand why you might be feeling this way. Honestly wishing you the best. Hoping he’s changed

This sounds like a bit of ptsd, you’re worried the same thing will happen again. Do you trust your husband now to stay with you? I would talk to him and explain that he needs to make you feel safe and remind you that he’s not going anywhere. Sorry you’re having to go through this at an already tough time!

@Emily he already said he’s not putting up with this again that it’s annoying

@Kathryn I don’t trust that he’ll stay with me. Sad to say but true

@Chí more than once. We’ve been better than ever but once again it’s like he thinks postpartum isn’t real

I see from your comment to others that be doesn't think postpartum is real!? 🙄😡 I'm so sorry that you're dealing with someone so ignorant!!! From what you've said it seems like he's not going to listen or be supportive of you, I'd be making an exit plan if possible as you deserve way more than someone this selfish ❤️ xx

Sorry this might sound harsh but what made you stay and have more kids with such a man???

Hey queen, Listen I feel you on that. I went through post partum depression with my second son and the fiancé at the time was not much help or well informed about this. He made it complicated for me because of his lack of knowledge or understanding about it caused problems. U deserve happiness. So educate yourself about positive options about loving yourself and learning about being a single parent and embrace the life you want if he wants no part of you or your kids lives. Then he will miss out on all the beautiful things of parenting

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