Bitter Baby Daddy
My baby daddy cannot get over the fact that I no longer want to be with him…..many years of lies, manipulation and cheating and I’m finally done. He’s a narcissist and put me through hell my whole pregnancy and postpartum. So he does NOTHING for our daughter, she is 1 and I am her SOLE financial provider for everything. He harasses me everyday trying to degrade me as a woman and a mother and constantly accuses me of having men around my daughter when that is the furthest from the truth. Funny thing is he is living out his own karma everyday…..no money, no job, sleeping in his car after being evicted and just overall MISERABLE! After taking his harassment the past few days, I’m done! I don’t want contact with him and I don’t want him around my child. He shows the characteristics of a man with nothing to lose and a man that cannot control his actions and I don’t trust him with my child as he shows he is determined to make my life hell. He hasn’t provided ANYTHING for my baby in months, not even one dime towards her first birthday! Then he tells me that Sunday he’s going to come and get her and I told him no and his response was “lol that’s cute”. I don’t know what to do….theres so much more I could say but we’d be here all day….i just want to protect my child because he is showing to be a spiteful petty man with no interest in being a mature “father”. In my state he is not recognized as her father since we were never married so he legally has no rights even though he’s on the birth certificate, he can change that by getting legitimized and hea been threatening to do so for a whole year but hasn’t.
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Keep all communication in writing (email or text) and professional like you are talking to a colleague, it will help you in the long run. Stay the court process sooner rather than later, it will look bad on you if you keep the child from him and he decides to take you to court over it.