Do I leave?
I don’t know whether to leave or not. I know long term I’d probably be much happier but also I don’t know if we can combat our problems and stay together. My main issue is his drinking, I feel like no matter where we are he will always end up with a beer in hand which leaves me solely responsible for the baby, which I don’t mind btw. I feel like I’ve done everything since she was born anyways so don’t know whether it may be easier to be single. I’m so torn on what to do.
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@Jlatu Hey, as a professional who works with families who have family members with addiction and drinking problems, it’s a lot complicated and no ultimatums don’t work with people who have a drinking problem. @Megan make sure you take care of yourself & your little one that’s your priority ❤️
What khadija (awesome name btw despite me probably butchering how its pronounced) said. My ex is the same way and im alot happier than when i was with him
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I hate to say this and I know it’s hard. But try and have a conversation with him. Let him know you’re going to leave if he doesn’t get his drinking under control. Give him a date you want to see change or you will leave. After you tell him don’t bring it up again and see if you see him trying to change.