I’m thinking of leaving

When I was pregnant I found out that he was one messaging my best friend and both sending snaps back and forth and our whole relationship he has done it with other chicks he’s sent money for nudes and kept all this stuff secret! For some reason I stayed but when I found out about my best friend I dropped her and I did drop him and he said he would go to counseling to fix it and I toke him back then I find out awhile ago that apparently that whole time he was still messaging her then I see he’s messaging this other chick he just can’t seem to block and leave out! I know he’s not actually cheating technically but he sends messages and money sometimes which is like wtf he’s never really done romantic gestures for me and yet he spent money on nudes for some random chick for a while while I was pregnant I was working full time and him only part time so I paid for all our bills pretty much and food and yet I had no idea with some of the money he made he spent it on nudes wtf. I’ve now had baby and there’s still been some issues I honestly don’t know what to do because we’ve had to move away from my home town and I don’t have my car up here with me. I also have no money of my own to get out of here I know it’s stupid and I’m giving him one last chance but I’m in my head and I think it’s not going to last long how do I even try get money to try get out of here 😭 I used to be so bubbly and not so overthinking about relationships but he’s changed me I’m so broken. This isn’t even most of it but fuck it hurts
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It’s also the fact he does tick most of the other boxes but it’s this he just can’t get past and it’s driving me crazy 😭

I’m Ngl my love I read the first few lines please give yourself self the strength and the love to leave in peace your just putting up with this for what the others boxes that are getting ticked he don’t respect you please mama love yourself 💕🌸✨✨✨

And lastly heal within honestly I feel the last sentence it breaks you but we got to be strong for our babies that we created x

if youre thinking of leaving you should

You should go. No person that truly loves you would put you through that sort of pain. And if he had a problem he wanted to genuinely fix with counseling because he loves you, he would.

Let him fix himself on his own. ‘O one needs that! We need support during pregnancy . I’m sorry you’re going through this. Idk what these men are on lately but these problems are so damn common it’s disgusting they are getting so much worse . You and your children deserve everything as all of us moms do! Give yourself grace and go with your gut . Whatever is best for the babies and you is most important!

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