Honestly, I have lost count of how many times I have fantasized about having a wife instead of a husband 😅
I used to think that all the time with my ex because I was in an awful relationship. But I can hand on heart say I've never even thought about that with my partner now. My fantasies now are of having a good nap and not having to wipe pooey bums lol
Maybe it’s a thought of wanting something different or that, to date around (not necessarily to be with someone permanently) which I can understand if that’s the case. Ngl, me and my baby daddy (we’re not really together now, haven’t been for awhile) there has been times when I have thought of where I wanted to see how it would be like to date someone else and it has crossed my mind occasionally, not all the time but, I just like that feel of someone different and nice to see how it would be other then the same all the time. Don’t know if that’s the same thought/feeling as you??