Lonely

I love my baby but I’ve never been a stay in the house all the time by myself everyday type of girl. Being a SAHM is taking a toll on my mental and I wish I had more friends.. which I’m open to making on here but it just seems like all these women like the idea of making new friends but conversations and plans don’t really go anywhere. I’m just tired of the baby and boyfriend being my only friends
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Girl i feel u!!! Message me we can exchange numbers

Would never regret my child but sometimes i feel like my life revolves around just being a mom and cooking for us my life was so different before i had him

i feel you. but sometimes for me, i want to get out bc i put so much energy into my kids & i just want a break. but then when it comes time to actually go, i chicken out bc going takes even more energy to get ready. so i end up just staying home depressed 😭

@Noelle SO different

I definitely feel that. work is the only thing that I got going for myself 😭 feel free to text me I’ll always respond

@Tiana I wish I went to work honestly cause that’s always been my getaway!

@Noelle yesss the cooking, cleaning , repeat like I need to go outside without my baby and be a person again not just a mom and partner

@Nestlē and yes I understand the being tired once you do get free time but I always regret it once I’m in the house alone the next 5 days waiting on my boyfriend to get home from work 🤦🏽‍♀️ wishing I went out when I had the time

my man want me to be a sahm I did that for 2 months when my daughter first got home and I couldn’t!! I want to be home with my daughter but I value my health too for her sake. so now we’re settling on me working 2-3 days a week so I don’t lose my shit everyday

@Tiana i stayed home for 3 months before i started working again i was close to loosing my shit well i actually did lol

So how did yall go about childcare

@Nestlē girl this is sooo meeee 😭im so used to going out with him now that going out by myself feels weird

@Noelle girl me too I swear now that I work full time and I have this balance between being a mother and being a worker I feel a whole lot happier knowing I can safely take care of both of us financially and mentally. as far as childcare that’s still a lot were alternating as of right now. I don’t know if I plan to put her in daycare maybe not at least for another 6 months but after that I might. but the alternating does work. we both get sleep, and we both spend equal time with our lo

@Tiana i waited a year to put him in day care but now things i much better and I definitely relate to you! Not being able to leave the house is horrible but during the summer it was definitely easier to pick up and go

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@Starlight🇬🇾 i was going to ask this but then thought maybe there’s a reason 🤷🏽‍♀️

Same here i be feeling like its the same thing every day or washing clothes is the only time i get out the house. And wishing i had friends to do anything with . Shit or even talk to

@Starlight🇬🇾 I didn’t know I just took it off lol

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