Sexy time?

I’m having conflicting feelings about it. I want to try (I’m 21+6) and hubby and I have not had sexy time since May due to ivf/pregnancy stuff and I want to try, but I’m scared of what it will feel like and I have read that some women bleed after. Im going to talk to my medical providers this week about it, but wanted to know if others have experienced these feelings at all and if you were able to enjoy it? Thank you all ❤️
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it can be nerve wracking at first but you will not bleed as long as he’s gentle and you guys start slow and know what positions you can do and can’t do, i know it’s weird because the baby is there but try and be in the moment and zone out the scary thoughts and you really gotta b in the mood to start don’t force it if you really don’t want to

Did they not tell you it was safe during any of your ob visits? I was told we were okay to be intimate when I found out I was pregnant at 7wks. We haven't had any problems. Were 24 weeks today. But always get your doctors approval.

@Jasmine they said it was okay. It’s just me being anxious honestly. Like we worked so hard to get pregnant with ivf that I am nervous something will mess it up. I’ll definitely be talking to my doctor about it again but I just wanted to see how other women felt about it if they had or had not had sex throughout pregnancy.

Oh, okay! I know nothing about IVF, honestly. Definitely get your doctors opinion! Hope all goes well.

I haven't had ivf, but I had 3 losses before my oldest. I'm pregnant with our third child now and being intimate during pregnancy has never caused any issues for me. I get being nervous, but as long as your Dr said it was ok you should be fine. I'm currently 25 weeks and it hasn't caused bleeding or anything.

I was like you with my first earth baby it was so hard to get pregnant and keep the pregnancy I had 3 missed mcarriages back to back 😢 💔 so we talked about it and we feel like we could 4 play but not to have sex I would sit down with your husband and yall talked about it see what he feel to about it if yall want to 4 play or have sex

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