Anyone feel super lonely during pregnancy?
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In my first pregnancy I needed to constantly remind my husband that I was pregnant and to help me getting off the car, to cook, to massage my back etc.. I needed to keep asking and nothing came naturally to him he was also annoyed that I would say I’m pregnant that often like an excuse to be lazy.. when I was nauseous he would force me to eat even though I couldn’t and he would tell me off for not eating. Whilst I understand he was trying to care he was not gentle at all! This time around I’m not nauseous or anything but very very tired and sleepy.. he still doesn’t do much to help but I’m not saying I’m pregnant for everything coz I know it annoys him.. it’s just men don’t get how hard it is and they don’t understand how much support must be given
I hear u my boyfriend now fiance was barely there during my pregnancy as we don't live together and still don't apparently his reasoning was he was afraid to get attached to something that could potentially be a miscarriage or stillborn
Men are idiots. They don’t realize it until you tell them millions of time what bug you! I feel you 100% trust me. I dealt with that and still do but better after talking about it millions of time! And tbh I still have some resentment and I’m trying to work on it by telling him sometimes what he did annoyed me in the past.. so I encourage you to find a good moment to talk to him and I hope this slowly get better! You also can message me if you need to talk :)