What another baby but no partner
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@Jess congratulations x
If you can afford it financially and can take the time off for maternity leave do it. You might meet someone in the future and they might end up being a great father to all your children, so no need to wait
I have 2 kids and am really feeling so conflicted about having a third so wondering what makes you so sure you want a third. It’s something that’s been on my mind a lot too! And finances is obviously one part but are you worried about how you will care for your other kids alone when you are pregnant or early post partum? I guess it depends how old your kids are but I couldn’t carry my toddler for my entire third trimester or the first 6 weeks of my baby’s life and that was tough. Def needed my partner to step in with the toddler care in those times.
Honestly I think it’s a good idea if you can financially afford everything
@Sydney hi.. so im I prepped all me food before hand (shepherds pie& cassroles and frozen them so all I have to do was microwave them and my kids food was easy.. he is autistic and eat all plan things and is picky.
@Sydney I have a c-sections and a friend watched my first for 2 nights while i was in the hospital and then I was on a ground floor flat .. he like to be independent 70% of the Time. I carried my first all the way till the end of my pregnancy.. I couldn't carry for the first 3-4 weeks with the pain they they not to till 6 weeks but at 3-4 weeks I had enough and did it.. starts small with on my lap and then like 5min to 10min and worked my why up... The only support I had was a friend would take my bins out.. without even knocking. So .. I'm surprised I could do it but I did. The only issue I have right now it the donor not taking at is around 2000 each try. And the fact I moved from a flay no floors to a 3 floor house.. I'd love to try for a vb but I've had 2 c-sections... already.. so even if I try it its most likely end in another. And stairs are a no no.. would take a long time to get up the stairs. X
Do it if you have the support around you and finances. You won't regret another baby. Although I was thinking the same as you and then met my fiance when my daughter was 6. We now have a second daughter you never know what's around the corner.