Yeah we definitely get the short end of the stick when it doesn’t workout, but if you try to warn women about that then you’ll be seen as fear-mongering.
I know it sucks. I was in a similar scenario with my first son. It took some time but things are great now. I actually ended up liking single parenting a little better than parenting with a man. I'm in a great relationship now, have three more sons and am glad everything worked out the way it did in retrospect (I know that might sound odd, and I still kinda miss being single/parenting on my own). Things will get better if you stick it out and you'll find new friends with similar priorities as you have now. 😃
I’m sorry if you ever need someone to talk to you can always reach me