Struggling

I’m having such a hard time with this pregnancy. I’ve been incredibly sick with vomiting and nausea. I’ve lost a significant amount of weight. I get horrible debilitating migraines. This is my second and it’s hard enough to be pregnant let alone with a toddler. And on top of that my MIL has taken to bullying me and literally wishing for me to get sick. And now my husband is making jokes about my migraines and laughing at my pain. I’m so devastated because I’m having a hard enough time and to literally be bullied by people who are supposed to support me that are grown adults is just unbelievable. And I’m so hurt because I’ve been telling my husband to talk to his mom and tell her to stop but instead today he decided to just join in on it. I’m just so hurt and so tired of it. And he tries to excuse it because he said I was being rude to his mom when all I said was for her to cry about it because she’s mad that my baby wakes up at night and wakes her up. I’m so sick of the way she treats me and my daughter and I can never actually stand up for myself. And I’m just devastated that my husband literally chooses to act just like her instead of seeing a problem or standing up to her for me. I just don’t know if I can keep doing this genuinely. I’m struggling so much and they’re making it worse. He tried to say he was sorry and come to bed but I told him I didn’t want to be around him because of the way he was. I just don’t know what to do. And idk if I’m just being overly hormonal and sensitive.

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I’m having a terrible time too. I’m so nauseous and throwing up all the time too. I don’t have migraines now but I’ve had them in the past. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with all of this at once. Your husband should be your support system, never has my husband or his mom made me feel anything but loved and supported. My ex husband was the way you described and I found my way out. Is he normally like that or is it influenced by his mom? Either way they both are in the wrong whether you are normal or not. Pregnancy is hard. It’s even harder without having people to support you. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope you and your husband can get back on the same page.

i was like that with my first pregnancy. I lost 40lbs. I'm sorry you're going through that, it's actually horrible. I wouldn't wish that on my worse enemy. unfortunately people don't understand things they don't go through. your MIL sounds extremely evil and manipulative and like she has your husband brain washed. I hope he gets his act together otherwise you may end up resenting him. but I geneiunely don't wish that on you at all. I'm sorry that you have to go through them bullying you when you're already having a hard time. it's really not funny at all and you need support right now.

Awe I’m sorry I have had migraines too only thing I could do is just sleep it off .. I would recommend some hydration packets and plenty of water .. I was told the migraines may be due to dehydration I like the “cure” hydration packets on Amazon but there are many other brands

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