Partner said family life is mundane and depressing ..

My partner said he finds family life mundane and depressing, he has no excitement in his life anymore. I take on the majority of the parenting, night wakes, getting up in the morning and preparing meals, nap time, bath bed etc. he might help with an hour here and there - taking him to the park one morning for an hour or doing bedtime routine once or twice a week. A bit of tidying around the house, emptying dishwasher or hanging the laundry out. He still has all the freedom in the world, he can go to the gym, socialise, out for drinks, go away on holiday, go to the beach, surf, etc. go to appointments, shower alone without having to ask. He will watch our son when I have an appointment but he’s never watched him for more than 3.5 hours and usually it’s taking him over to his parents. I have no family around, only 2-3 friends who are busy with their own lives. I have no hobbies, no free time for myself anymore. We have no ‘village’ so no one to give me a break or give us time as a couple. Hearing him say family life is mundane and depressing and he’s over hearing me complain about how hard being a mum can be (I’m 32 weeks pregnant with diabetes, anemia and a short cervix so risk of premature labour) and just struggling with back and hip pain, exhaustion, as I can’t sleep properly and never get to nap, and the heat is really difficult. I find I can take our son out in the mornings but by the afternoons I’m really struggling with energy levels. I try to check in with him daily, on how he’s feeling and encourage him to have his own life, ask if he wants to do things as a family, etc. but I can’t really help that my life pretty much revolves around our 16 month old toddlers wake up, eating, nap and keeping him entertained combined with house work. It’s disappointing to hear he finds family life so depressing, and I can’t imagine with another baby on the way life will get any more thrilling 😅