Grief
My dad passed away in June and I didn’t find out till November due to estrangement. I always held out hope that we would be reunited. Now I’m pregnant and while I have a great support system around me it hurts that my dad will never meet my baby. My moms partner is happy to become a Pop Pop and while I’m so grateful that my baby is loved by so many it just making me sad right now that I’ll never know my own dads reaction to becoming a grandfather. I’ll never get to know what silly name he’ll want to be called. I’ll never see how they bond and interact with each other. I missed my chance to reconnect with him and it really fucking sucks.
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One thing I've found that helps is getting a reading done by a medium, I lost my great grandpa who I was very close to in 2021 and now that I'm pregnant with my first id love to know what he thinks and get some answers from him (family drama meant estrangement for my father's side first years so he died not knowing the rea truth) If it's not something you believe in then that's fine, but personally it helped me and it may help you if he is ready to come forward
Yes, I’ve considered finding a trustworthy medium. This is something my family has discussed. Did the medium provide you any details about your family?
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I lost my mom 3 weeks ago and there’s no words to describe the feeling. At this point, yes you’re right, it just sucks. I know wholeheartedly how you’re feeling. Cry when you need to, don’t hold back tears. Appreciate who’s around you just remember that doesn’t mean you can’t cry or be in your feelings. 🫶