I didn’t leave…
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I didn’t leave until it got worse and worse and worse and once I had my daughter I decided she isn’t going to be put through the pain I went through. At one point Nothing would make me leave until I realised I am worth more than what this person was putting me through. Therapy was my savior in understanding my worth.
@Nicci yes it is his first.
Do you think he was sincerely sorry or has he not even bothered to acknowledge your feelings? Regardless if he was sorry or not though, I do think they'll be issues for you going forward without some sort of therapy. I really hope you're able to move forward from this whether or not nits together or separately 💜
Not me, but a good friend of mine. Her husband cheated on her aswell and had OF and tinder accounts. He said he wouldn't do it again and she gave him another chance. Within 2 months, it happend again and she felt even worse. So dont do this to yourself, leave before he does this again. The saying is "once a cheater, always a cheater".
Have you asked yourself why you wouldn't leave? Is it his first offence? It may be that you're going to need some sort of counselling to unravel all the thoughts and feels that you're feeling. So sorry you're going through this lovely 💕