Doing the deed
In 37 + 3 and want to attempt to have sec with my husband to see if it’ll soften the cervix and help. We haven’t done it since 16 weeks as I kept getting utis after and felt a bit uncomfortable going forward as started to really bump out. I’m nervous about doing it because I just don’t know how to get in the mood when I am so big etc any tips?
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I personally find I can’t orgasm unless on my front whilst pregnant. The heaviness of baby steals my orgasm otherwise!! I would suggest a massage before hand or some fore play with some toys if you can xx
@Em you don't need to orgasm. It's also just good to have that semen in you 😉
@Alina I know but atleast make it it fun if going through all that effort
@Alina orgasms release oxytocin so it’s just as important that both of you orgasm - don’t just let him get all the pleasure 😉
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Maybe ask him to massage you first to relax you, and do a meditation or something? You don't want to feel all tense about, so try to relax in any way you can 🌸. I also find that sidewise missionary is one of the most comfortable positions atm just cos bump is so big and heavy 😅