Feeling a little sad (just venting)

I had a group of girls that I use to work with before having my son that i became friends with. They still all work together. He's almost 2 now and lately the vibes have felt off. One of the girls is pregnant and she had a gender reveal at a pizza place. All my friends were there but I didn't get invited. 😕 makes me a little sad but tbh I kinda felt this would happen since I no longer see them everyday since I don't work there anymore. Just sucks not to at least be invited. I'm trying not to let it get to me and Hubby is taking me out to dinner to make me feel better. Vent over. Thanks for tuning in.

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Hey mama. I’m kinda in the same boat. At my old job I got really really close to a group of women, I considered them best friends. Couple them left the company first and that’s when the distancing started. And then when I stopped working all together because I had my daughter it all just changed. Let’s just say I don’t talk to any of them. A couple of them didn’t come to the baby shower and none of them came to her first birthday. I’ve invited them over a couple times and nothing. It makes me really sad because I thought it was different. I get real lonely sometimes

That's hard mama. I've been through similar. Maybe you can connect with this one having the baby?? Same thing will probably happen to her. Unless she's going back in the office right away.

@Jasmine yes. I considered them my best friends too. And I was even in her wedding last year. I helped her with alot of things (which i was more than happy too). But after the wedding it noticed a shift. I thought it was in my head since I was dealing with alot of anxiety but now I'm feeling like I'm not making it up. That sucks. I'm sorry that happened to you! Yes i was already feeling lonely but seeing them all together just made me feel even more lonely. I hope you find your people and they make you feel seen.

@Lianne she already has an older child and im sure she's going back to work. Her mom just retired so she will be taking care of her babies.

It's alo throwing me off because I was just texting her a couple days ago about me wanting to drop off a gift for her. And she didn't mention anything. 🫠

Sometime you have to put your foot down, you’ve got this x

Same here, with all of them I’ve gone above and beyond to help them out in their circumstances. I’ve gone past my comfort zone. I’ve let them stay the night at my house because they needed to get away, I went to go pick them up at random places, I’ve changed their locks for them, heck I’ve had a key to one of their houses. So, I feel you. Watching them together in social media is just a constant reminder

@Jasmine omg that's so messed up for them to treat you like that especially since you seemed like such a great friend to them! I'm sorry!

@Han 💙 thank you! I'm just more of a person that will be like oh well it is what it is and move on

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