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@Chernien I have so many times. All he says is you do it better than me.. I feel like punching him
Say to him he can pay for a cleaner if he doesn’t want to do his share.
I would personally do as much as he does. Take his example xx
Say its not about who does it better it'd about getting it done or as lesley said tell him to pay for cleaner xx
If it helps having a 1 year old I don't think it makes a difference if you clean or not it will still be a mess after the babies been through the place. I can't tell when I've cleaned apart from the fact I'm knackered.
He must help you, he’s not only the father of the baby but first of all your partner in life and he must take responsibility for what needs to be done in the house, if he doesn’t care you can show him the exit and just then you will see his priorities.
My partner can't clean so not same boat but I had episodes where I actually couldn't be asked to clean, so we just called up a cleaner once a week, it was about 30 quids and she was doing a great job. (You should tell him to pay for it anyway since he can't be bothered with nothing 🤷🏾♀️)
I'm sorry your in this slump! Maybe say something to the babies dad that he needs to help more round the house my partner has been doing alot of the cleaning past few months as our boy is full on and hard work so I hardly get time too but he takes so much pressure off by doing it when he can x