Advice!

No judgemental comments genuinely just looking for advice. There’s this guy with additional needs I’d chat to him sometimes when seen him in street etc. then a few times he tagged along with me to shops (I never asked but didn’t have the heart to say not to come with me. Anyway he stays near me and is constantly walking up and down my street looking to bump into me as he stops at my door looks around then goes back up. He messages me constantly on tik tok. He calls me his bestie and I feel really bad but I’ve got 4 kids and I’ve recently just had a miscarriage (last week) my mental health is really bad just now and he keeps messaging me all the time I have and my partner have said I’m not feeling well etc but he still persists. I’ve not really been speaking to anyone with everything going on but I can’t tell him the situation as I don’t think he understands fully. I just don’t know how to deal with this situation? I don’t want to be horrible and he is known for taken things the wrong way and getting upset but I really need space I’m struggling with my own life currently on top of being a mum working and going through a miscarriage. Any advice on how to politely and nicely ask him to maybe stop messaging me would be great. He’s now messaged saying he’s upset that I’ve not wrote back, but he is messaging a lot I just can’t keep on top of the amount of attention he is seeking 🥲X

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Just say to him you need to deal with your mental health and don't want to talk to anyone and you are cancelling your tiktok. Then block him. He will think you have cancelled

@Alessia the problem Is he is constantly walking up and down my street so I see him a lot out and about too… I also have his sister on tik tok 🥴 do I block them too 😂 I’m in such a predicament x

Why don't you explain the situation to the sister? You say to her you are not on a good place at the moment and don't want to speak to anyone. That's not personal toward them but just are not feeling well.

@Alessia I don’t know how comfortable I feel speaking to her, I only know her from being in same street etc so not entirely sure what she is like, I’ve re spoke to my partner and he has said he actually told him I wasn’t doing well and needed space so he’s obviously not understood or not taken it aboard. I’ve asked my partner if he sees him again to tell him again. But I’m not very optimistic as he’s not understood / listened the first time x

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