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@Meghan almost 5 months
Okay I’d say give this time. They literally can’t understand what youre going through or what you need and it’s not their fault. I’d guess hormones are not your friend either. Everyone is different but our relationship was garbage for months. We were figuring it all out and we were not giving each other room to mess up. I’d say give him some grace and give yourself some time to find your groove together.
@Meghan okok..but what if i said some of the issues were before baby got here
What are the issues?
If you know the relationship isn’t going to work, I’d end it. I’m in a similar situation and I keep thinking about my son. He is also 5 months and won’t have any trauma but let’s say I stay with my partner for a couple more years, he might blame him self. For your specific situation though, maybe the opposite could be true, I mean what if he does change and it works out? I’d say get real about what you want out of life and love, follow your gut and your intuition and don’t let fear or convenience make that decision for you.
@Meghan he’s not really considerate of my feelings, gets upset when im not “in the mood” doesn’t help around the house etc etc
@Bree i want him to change and be the person i see he could be, want my son to grow up with both parents in the home you know? sometimes i can see us working through these things and sticking together then he’ll do something that triggers me then all of that goes out the window then i find myself wanting to end things again. its a never ending cycle.
I think being a father can help them change these things. I know my finance would do pretty much anything to fix what I need fixing. It takes reminders, I takes time, it takes arguments but we’re getting there. New habits aren’t easy to make. I would keep pushing
@Meghan we’ll see i guess, thank you for your input ❤️
How old is your baby?