I don’t think my husband is my soulmate 😔

My best advice would be to go with your gut..... How do u feel about him ... Have you been able to ask or discuss with him how you are feeling?

@Stephanie we talk about it many times he doesn’t feel or see any changes but he try to be more attentive for a little and then we go back to the same he is a good father and a good provider but I don’t feel like my emotional needs are covered

I personally don't believe in soulmates, or the pressure of finding "the one". I believe if a relationship ends, there will definitely be someone else for you and him just like there was before your relationship. When it comes to my partner, I chose him because he is a good person, he's reliable, consistent, trustworthy, sensible, funny, easy on the eye (lol), and makes me feel safe and secure etc. I was always told that love isn't where chaos and excitement is, it's where you feel most at peace and calm. Sex wise, for us it is up and down which comes with life,kids,ageing,being together long term etc - but if your hearts are in the right places there's no reason that if you both consciously work at it, you could maybe bring the spark back. If you really thing there's nothing to salvage then move on, there will be someone else out there for both you and him. Good luck girl 🩷🩷🩷

You can feel like you found the one but still need to work on your relationship/marriage anyway…sometimes that fire and desire goes down…but he has to be willing to work at it too

You just described my relationship 😮‍💨 sometimes I think ok I can be with him the rest of my life other times I'm like do I really wanna settle. There's no excitement. Maybe I'm just used to toxic relationships. I just want some romance and to feel desired sometimes. I still feel grateful for him and the father he is so I will stick it out.

I don’t think soulmates are a thing. I think there are people in this world we get along with better than others. I do believe relationships take work and effort and you have to continuously fall back in love with each other. No one is just in love all the time forever. My son’s father is my best friend, we talk all day everyday, we tell each other everything and I have never had that before. We have spots where we’re incompatible though, and we work through them and communicate. You just have to be open to the communication and open to possibly changing for your partner. Is he my soulmate? Who knows. Do I want to work on things with him for the rest of my days? Yes I do.

@Jessica see I said everything he doesn’t he said some stuff but I feel like he likes to keep something positive and I don’t I said everything

@Mar yeah it’s a hard choice because sometimes guys are romantic and attractive but not responsible and I rather have the second one but still missing the other side

@Yasmina according to him everything is fine so take of leave it but I get it what I want or ask is not who he is

@Alison thank you I know he is good and when we have sex things totally change but when we don’t do anything we are like roommates and I say this to him he said sorry you feel that way I tell him I want you to hug me or seat next to me even if we don’t have sex because it’s not all about that and he agreed but then here we are again