Leave him he’s a cheater
I know it’s hard but leave. Or at least slowly remove yourself emotionally until you can finally leave. Once they cheat and you take them back they just keep doing it cause they know you’re gonna stay. Try and get some income and family who you can stay with. You don’t wanna waste your time being mistreated you will regret it. You’re blocking a good man from coming into your life. And it’s much better to be single and lonely than in a relationship constantly hurt and suspicious.
@Sun Asia & @Sophie thank u for everyone who responded 🙏🏼 The only thing is this my place, everything’s in my name. And I have embarrassed myself I feel like. I have an attitude now with certain neighbors and don’t want my kids playing with their kids. I use to love all the kids coming to my place and now I feel really depressed haven’t been taking care of myself. Ive been looking really rough, hairs a mess, I’m overweight, breaking out from stress, stopped going to work. I use to be well put together. I feel like everyone is judging me and I don’t know how to come back from this. I’m not strong enough to tell him to leave because I’m scared he’ll try to take the kids when he feels like it and I don’t have income at the moment. I feel like a bad person for taking his money and then telling him to leave
So I've asked my partner as his ex chested on him with a neighbour whilst he was on tour in the army. He caught her out by going away for deployment but telling her the time wrong. He left 10am by 11am she had the neighbour about by half 12 He was leaving and she was in a towel kissing him goodbye. He says if your gut is telling you somethings wrong and he's got a history it highly likely youre right sadly. If he had cheated and truly wanted to change he wouldn't even risk you worrying about anything. Maybe see if there's a council or charity that can support depending on your situation. You deserve better sugar. Anxiety is not a love language xx