Every year for vtines day

Set up alternate plans.. he doesn’t have to be the one that gives you a free day. Don’t let him stop ANYTHING!

My bd (who I left last July) asked me to be his Valentine and go out with him 😂 Rather than responding to him, I screenshotted his message and sent it to my attorney so he could handle it because that's what I was told to do.

@LeKenya well he should be getting his son because its his time.

@LeKenya i honestly have no support system so i have to make plans when its his scheduled days but every valentines day he makes up such a bs excuse and my plans get phucked up . Im sooo annoyed

You can expect him to do that when he’s shown you that he won’t OR you can find a better way and set up alternate plans because you already know he’s inconsiderate. I personally wouldn’t keep letting his inconsideration be a hindrance for me when I can do something better and he won’t be able to stop anything.

@LeKenya i understand its just hard with zero support is all . He constantly does it hes a professional cock blocker ! He tries to come to my house to stay with his son and ill still leave fr a date on his ass . Hes annoying

Oh he’s one of them 🤣🤣🤣

@LeKenya i dont even think its intentional its because hes so damn inconsiderate. He thinks my life revolves around him and his stupid schedule. Hes a bum

My oldest kids father was like that! He literally lacked the ability to think outside of himself! Smh..

Girl you better go to care dot com and get a babysitter and have your Valentine’s Day.

@Alyson im terrified! He’s only 4

I understand completely. But I do believe they background check and screen all potential sitters on there if that helps!