Oh my word that sounds an awful situation to be in 😭 Nevermind just before you're about the give birth! I can understand why you may physically need his support but mentally this is going to be so so hard. Are there any local women's groups or charities close by that you could talk to? Even over the phone for some advice. It sounds like he's emotionally abusive and gaslighting you which you don't deserve. If you don't have any supportive friends/family near by I'd definitely look at speaking to a local women's group, even victim support, for some advice x
not to scare you but your mental health will be all over the place when baby is here never mind having to deal with him too, please chuck him out before your baby arrives for the sake of you both! X
Chuck your husband back out the house you’ll be too overwhelmed to deal with him and a newborn