First Valentine's day as a married woman
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It was the first time I had been out of the house without the baby in a while
It was like my second date without the baby since I had her 5 months ago.
Got it. I can see how you felt it was ruined becauseyou were expecting it to be a seamless enjoyable evening. Hopefully, he can make it up to you. I don't think the argument should keep you from having a good time though. Sometimes, you just have to make the best of it. I've been there before. My therapist has encouraged me to not let temporary feeling disrupt what could be an enjoyable memory.
Honestly I think some of this is post partum hormones. A lot of couples don't get out for dates or valentines day. I have a 2 year old and we've never been out together without her.
@Rosie I agree, my son is 8 months and we’ve not had a single minute alone since he was born , that’s just being a parent
The reason that they were arguing about matters alot here. If it was something small that he could have controlled I would be upset but if it was something a bit bigger you can’t be mad at him for having feelings. It definitely was bad timing but he is only human lol
I’m sorry girl that is super frustrating 🫂
I may be missing something but what about the argument he had with his mom made you feel the date was ruined. Did he continue to talk it it while you were out? Or did he treat you differently because he was upset with his mom?