Anyone else?

Completely feel you on this girl

I'm so sorry it is that way, but it shouldn't 😔 Your partner is supposed to be someone you trust with your feelings and your heart. The one you go to when you need something, someone to love and comfort you. Maybe it's time to ask yourself why and what you love about him. What does he add to your life? He should be the first person you go to.

So my hubby used to be an addict…have bad feelings? Have a problem? Make it “go away” with drugs. He’s been sober for years now but he was so used to making feelings go away so now he’s so weird about it. Like his coping mechanism is humor and not being serious about how I’m feeling. It gets frustrating but I’d take it over him shutting out his feelings with drugs again. I tell him I don’t appreciate that he’s not being serious or being considerate of how I’m feeling and he says “sorry, baby..you’re right. You don’t deserve that” and I know he means it. But it’s like he can’t help it sometimes. I feel like I must train him all over again!

I feel u 1000% when I express myself to my bd he shuts down, deflects the convo and doesn’t know how to comfort me, so I stoped telling him anything personal and just go to my bestie 😣 communication is so key in relationships… some men still have a lot of growing up to do sorry babe