Heartbroken

How did you girlie's get over your ex? It's been a week since we broke up but I am STRUGGLING!! I have no friends, so no one to talk too and I don't go out so I'm stuck sat at home with my thoughts on where it went wrong as I thought everything was fine 😭 Of course my 6 year old keeps me occupied when she's here but she now over her dad's at the weekends. I am struggling and he was the love of my life!
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Time. It's rough. Get out and walk, or run.. it clears the mind and the heart. I know right this minute you likely don't want to hear this.. he was NOT the love of your life if he left. You will be loved again, and you will love again. God willing, you'll be married one day and think back on this time and wonder why you let yourself feel this way. 🫂 No matter what, time will help you get over it, just don't jump into another relationship until you've properly grieved this relationship and all of your dreams of what you thought might be.

Go make friends! Join a club or sport (walking, hiking, pickleball, writing, painting, gaming, whatever) that meets on weekends. Even if you only go twice a month, you'll start to see the same people and make good connections. Go new places or old places that were before his time or that you never went to because he didn't like to go there. Take your daughter new places. See new movies. Try new foods. Give your brain new people and stuff to think about and plan for and you will cut down on the time you spend replaying what went "wrong." If you do all that and are still struggling, see a therapist. They will help you talk things out in a safe place and help you paint a picture of what your new life could look like.

Drop me a personal message. I am going throw the same thing x

Idk we still having sex 😭😭

Feel free to message me. We can vent and trauma dump 🩵

I’m in the same boat 😭

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