Loneliness

I'm the first (and only) of my girlfriends to have a baby. They have their lives, either studying or working, single or in a relationship. I have nobody to talk to or spend time with (except my mom, my baby & my dog). Every single day feels the same because I'm a sahm. I just want to meet moms who understand how life changes after giving birth (to a wonderful human being).
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Feel free to message me, it can be lonely and they deffo do change your life x

Then look for baby groups, library groups, mothers groups in your area and start attending that’s where I’ve made my mum friends to spend my every day with because some have same age kids he can have play dates since birth, but when I wanna go out at night that’s when I call my single gfs, they do have kids but the BD’s take the kids every other weekend so that’s when we plan to meet at night. For mum friends, go where other mums go. Reach out on here too.

Motherhood can be very lonely. You are definitely not alone in this. I share with you things that really helped me go out of the house and meet people during my first year as a mom. - connect through peanuts. I had no connection with all mom's, but I found a super mom I have lot in common (in and out motherhood). Really helped to meet her at 5 months pp. - at 2 months, I start to go to stimulation baby classes and I ve meet 3 friends there. From there, we start to invite and got invited for playdates and girls night Motherhood made me loose lots of friends but made me win also others. Now at 18m pp it's very different. Easier to me. I feel more settled in motherhood. I mourned the friendships I lost and value my new friendships. We can go to parks, do activities,... Hope it helps mama.

i feel ya. i’m currently experiencing the same thing and some days are harder than others. i don’t go out much at all and the struggles at home make it that much harder.

You’re not alone in this. It took me months to get out of new motherhood fog to reach out to moms groups to find my people. I hope you find some in your area, but you’re always welcome to message any of us. We get it

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