Just Venting

I love this pregnancy but I wish I could’ve picked a different partner. Definitely feels lonely and from the wrong doings he’s done I just don’t feel like I could be with this person especially since his life is a mess. I painted a better version of him to my family so they could like him and it worked cause their getting close to him. However, I secretly hate it now because I just don’t think I wanna be in a relationship with this person but feel as though I have to suck it up because I also don’t want to experience all this alone. I think the lack of friends and my codependency drove me into this relationship and now feel like I’m stuck.

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I am so sorry that you are experiencing and feeling this way. If you need someone to vent and chat you can send me a message ❤️

If you don't think the person is right for you , you should listen to your gut feeling. The best thing you can do is have a word with your parents and be honest about him say everything that he's done wrong to them they will understand in fact they will support you , leave him and know your worth not only your worth but your baby's worth too, it's a horrible feeling when you think that you have to stay with the monster that abuses and uses but see when you leave him behind fully and block him and all his family it'll be the best feeling ever because now you can start to heal and have the best life for you and your baby x

Wait. Why weren’t you able to pick a different partner before getting pregnant?

I was in a relationship with my son’s father when I fell pregnant and he promised he’d be super supportive but he changed and became so self centred and wouldn’t even discuss plans for the baby’s arrival. I felt so alone not being able to talk to him about it, he also wasn’t helping around the house, nor helping to cover the essentials on the registry or helping me clean up after my cat when she was ill. The resentment boiled so much I ended up leaving him. I said I’ve been doing it alone, I might as well be alone. I opened up to my family about everything and honestly now I’m so much happier, less stressed and know I have family that care to support me. Obviously in an ideal world everyone would want to raise their child as a complete family unit. It takes a lot of strength but I’d say don’t stay for the sake of the baby, your mental health is the upmost priority and that will be most important when raising your little one x

@Jade That's exactly what I wanna know? Ain't no way I'd do that to myself repeatedly. He must have hoodwinked her the first time 🤔

@Claudette ❤️ I feel for the women who’s men change 180 after kids but to say that she couldn’t choose her partner seems…. To lack accountability.

@Jade I agree 💯. We all have a choice and we all have free will. There are loads of girls on this app who don't even know what accountability looks like. They want to blame the guy for every single thing. It's not logical or rational tbh🙄

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