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5w+1 and haven't gotten a dye stealer?

I keep seeing about dye stealers here - I took a test today and it's still not a dye stealer. Is this a bad sign? Do some people never get one?

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When did you get your positive

I'm 10 dpo and still negative

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Ovulation testing

I had a strong positive ovulation test yesterday but today its alot weaker, so do I need to do it today aswel? X

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Catholic baptism

Do you need god parents for a catholic baptism? We are choosing to get our baby baptised as catholic, I'm catholic and my partner is Protestant, he wouldn't be religious though meanwhile I'm not very religious but have faith. My partners family would be the type they wouldn't step in a Catholic Church so wondering i...

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Clear blue digitals?

What dpo did you get a positive digtal on?

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Guys please help :(

On Thursday I got this test and today I got this test (in comments). I know this is a bad sign. Could it be because I did a wee an hour ish ago and then went for another one just now to try and test? So my urine is diluted?

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Childminding and safeguarding against abuseā€¦

I look after my son (18 months) full time and have no help from family or anyone. There is no nursery in our town for under 3s. I am considering a childminder for one afternoon a week, but my concern is safeguarding from abuse. I feel a bit uncomfortable blindly trusting another adult - even if they seem really love...

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Pregnant or not pregnant

I had my last period on 8th October, my doctor advised me to start taking low aspirin because of two recent miscarriages. I had some mild watery bleeding on 2nd November for a day (I thought this was my period but there wasnā€™t enough to be a period). After that I spotted for one day since this day Iā€™ve had the exact...

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Embryoglu/hyaluronic acid

Hello - has anyone opted for this add on and could share their experience of it/decision making? Read the 2020 Cochrane review and HFEA website on it but interested in othersā€™ experiences as it hasnā€™t been mentioned to us before x

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Getting 2 vfl 4 days apartā€¦ normal?

TW: Pregnancy I got a very faint positive 4 days ago on a clear blue rapid. I retested today with first morning urine same test and itā€™s still very faint. Should I be concerned? This pregnancy is a tiny bit of a surprise. I was told a week ago that by blood test I wasnā€™t pregnant. And now I have positive tests. ...

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ā˜ļøAdvice needed ā˜ļø

For those of you that have had ā€˜the first grandchildā€™ anyone got any tips for dealing with smothering parents (the grandparents) who are meeting your baby for the first time? My mother is rather opinionated and shes ā€˜always rightā€™, my dad is a constant worrier who in turn rings me 3-4 times a day, regardless if i an...

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TTC baby number 2

So I'm 5/6dpo (early i know), haven't taken pregnancy tests but took an LH test this morning with 2nd urine. Yesterday my LH test was so light if you took a quick look you'd think there was no line at all, today it's come back quite strong. Had some spotting over night and cramping today, could this be looking good?...

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6dp5dpt negative

Has anyone had a negative at 6dpt and tested a few days and it was positive?

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Baby No2

How did everyone decide it was the right time for baby no2? Me and my partner have been talking about having another one but Iā€™m worried itā€™s never going to be the right timešŸ˜“

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Birth certificate

Is it worth putting dad on birth certificate for child maintenance ?

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Is this positive?

Guys do you see a line? I see it but donā€™t want to believe cause Iā€™m In denial lol 6 days before my period, 9 DPO. I saw a faint line at 9dpo with my daughter whoā€™s now 15 months

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Please help me!

So Iā€™m somewhere around 9-11 dpo tomorrow. I feel pregnant, my husband thinks I am as does my mum but my tests are all over the place. I only take various brands of the early detection ones and some have a super faint line, two have an obvious but very faint pink line and the rest are negative. Iā€™ve just taken a cle...

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Why am I getting some positive tests with a vvvfl and some that have nothing at all?

So Iā€™m somewhere around 9-11 dpo tomorrow. I feel pregnant, my husband thinks I am as does my mum but my tests are all over the place. I only take various brands of the early detection ones and some have a super faint line, two have an obvious but very faint pink line and the rest are negative. Iā€™ve just taken a cle...

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IUI/IVF

Hi everyone! My partner and I have completed all our fertility testing including a tube assessment and seems like we have u explained infertility. Our Dr previously spoke about doing two rounds of medicated IUI (weā€™d be funding this) before moving to IVF. Anyone else had a similar experience or let me know what to ...

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Hcg levels

Found out I was pregnant last week, but my tests arenā€™t getting any darker. Iā€™ve got positives on digitals and every test I do thereā€™s a line but itā€™s not getting any darker. Iā€™ve been testing everyday since last Sunday and itā€™s gotten slightly darker but not much. Any advice please?

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