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We only support relationships where the adults (not you!) put effort! Otherwise your daughter doesn’t need them
@Heidi he told me (my ex) he’s not coming because he doesn’t wanna see me happy in my new relationship. Then started to cry. He kept saying “put yourself in my shoes” “it would be awkward “. My response “it’s not about us it’s about the child”.
It really isn’t about him. Like, he can cry all he wants but ultimately you’re right. It’s not about him. It’s about your child. I feel like these guys just use the water works to manipulate us and try to make us feel bad
@Heidi he hasn’t even tried to visit her since I left him (she was 6 months old). So to me it just shows what’s more important to him.
If he’s not already, get him on child support. We don’t need these emotionally unavailable deadbeat dads but they can pay for their kids to have the things they need. A good life doesn’t mean one with both parents. Your girl is getting enough love from you
@Heidi it would honestly be a waste because he doesn’t have a job.
Ew. As a mama to a Christmas eve baby, I flipping hate that bs. You either care equally or you can gtfo. My son is 10 this year and he notices that we are the only one that gives him christmas and birthday gifts.